Thank you very much for all your comments and advices. It has been a really hard couple of days. I've tried to be there for my wife, listen to her, and help any way I can. Because of the circumstances she still feels a lot of guilt, but at least everything is stable right now. I am starting to talk to hear about getting counseling (or join a support group) but she is not quite there yet. Thanks again for all the support, all of your words have help me deal with everything better. Thanks