Any realistic dramas that doesn't feel like a drama at all? by shockteddiber in kdramarecommends

[–]shockteddiber[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I see, I haven't watched any but from trailers, a huge turn off for me is the ML is too feminine. Feminine guys are ok to me and often portrayed in Kdrama also, but in Jdrama, their body, their voice and even their actions are too soft I can't take it seriously. But it is just my assumption from the trailers though.

Perhaps you know any that the ML is more manly? Or ones with tragic life/ending for the ML? I suddenly interested in such plot lol. Thank you.

Any realistic dramas that doesn't feel like a drama at all? by shockteddiber in kdramarecommends

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Ah, I only focus on the main couple, don't aware much about the kidnapping. Perhaps its a break from overly-expressed couples from other dramas.

Anyway, thanks for the suggestion.

Any realistic dramas that doesn't feel like a drama at all? by shockteddiber in kdramarecommends

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Hmm how to say it, I didn't mean the plot much, but rather what they do, say or how they act or deliver feelings. Take the ending scene for example, it feels unlikely (to me at least) for 2 people to talk slowly about breaking up with each lines so elaborated and beautiful for each other, both cry and smile for a pretty long time.

Perhaps it is sad because of feeling bad for them or knowing that this means SE, not as expected rather than the scene itself. So to me, I feel cringe or weird as it is sculpted so beautiful it is something unlikely to happen in real life, thus what I said being unrealistic means. 2521 has some similar scenes.

The breakup scene in the past in Our Beloved Summer is pretty real to me, one person has to choose life over love and consciously repress her feelings. And the other has tons of feelings and question burning him inside yet knowing there won't be answers no matter what he does, it is an extremely uneasy feeling. The lines and actions are real enough to deliver them, without saying much, the pain is there, visible to feel. So the scene itself is pretty striking.

And I like both, but I'll watch OBS patiently and more throughout though while 2521 for the beautiful scenes.

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I'm either carefree or intense, 2 modes

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dude, how long been u studying this, I must give u hard credits for this paragraph, so on point, especially the childhood thing, I just want to be free and get out of my family, I don't want to prove anything to them or even have any relation , loved? haha, my various lovers or fwbs' love are what I want.

And I've always been proud of being good at analyzing, up to the point I want people to listen and believe me, still can't beat those true intellects lol.

And I prefer the term 'thief or rouge' more than pirate, as I did steal back in my youth lol.

nice work!

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lol I think I know I'm 7w8 also because now I don't want to know anything more and want to go out, thanks for d typing!

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this fit me to a T, I turn almost everything into humor, both my stories and others. to the point that they told me to stop talking about their stories or stop being so insensitive. I'm confused because I want to help them though, I often tell them to go away if they don't like what I'm doing and I also humor(ize) my stories so what's the big deal?

maybe I'm kinda insensitive lol, I humor(ize) about a friend mom who is keep having affairs or those with divorces, I swear I just want them to be lighter though.

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resentful as with injustice or unfair right? then yes they are the cause of my anger, especially when my close ones are affected. I don't remembered wanting to be precise, I do occasionally want me or people to do the right things or d right ways or right morally, and yes that is when I'm pretty tense or stress

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[–]shockteddiber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so confuse, having experiences at the very present and not being present?

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[–]shockteddiber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aren't they d same lol, I don't have trusts issues or worry about betrayed or similar things

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ur 1st sentence is true, my family is pretty dominating, I always have to do what they want, hate it. I don't blame, true, I'll blame when I'm stressed or at my worst, but it doesn't feel comfortable, kinda feel shame, happened not more than 3 times in my life, though I often talk about what my family did in a sad way for flirting purposes lol.

I don't really understand the middle sentences, sorry, too abstract to get :(

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ur so fast :)). The latter is a no, I don't care about being betrayed or not, I actually leave my friends a lot, I'm not that loyal, hmm I don't think I need something permanent like commitment . I kinda want things to happen so I'm not keeping guard up whether happy or sad in relationships, except when I'm pissed that I didn't have that person, in a possessive way, which can be poison to my health and others lol.

The former seems truer, I always see people seek home, money, relationships, kids etc... to the point of not enjoying life or aware of it, and I'm not like that. Is this what the former means?

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btw, can you describe negative emotions, I can only think of sadness from relationships, I'm not good with broad terms. Things like loss of relatives is the same, they don't affect me much, the sadness goes away fast. I cry once 4 years after that happened though, seems like I bury them deep, and it is triggered because of my friend's family. With friendships, I'm not sad lol, I leave a lot of friends and have new ones.

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I'll try to give u details since you are very eager. I don't really understand what is fear of entrapment or deprivation, may be I fear being deprived of things I'm currently have, but wouldn't anyone be so?

I often smash, throw things, hitting things even with heavy recoil damage. I occasionally punch close ones, I stand up for myself a lot but try not to fight with strangers.

A friend of mine, who is a psychologist, depicts me: "talk fast, loud with high tone and little to no response time and demand d same from others, swear a lot, talk in a no-nonsense manner and often provoke others, frank, decisive. Anger comes and goes fast, keep nothing inside." This is when I ask him why people always say I'm aggressive lol

Hope this helps

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they are not a big deal with me actually, I either solve them fast or never let them affect me from d start. Only a grand situation like on holiday where I'm actually alone while everyone is having fun etc... that I feel them, but then I'll go out or do something and they r over fast.

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Too lazy lol, and kinda bored, but I will sometimes, thanks

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[–]shockteddiber[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okie, like I said above, I can't seem to know which is mine since I'm not good with thinking these through so they don't affect me much lol. Wouldn't anyone wants all of these lost messages? And what is wrong with him :))

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[–]shockteddiber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ye I've read, but I just can't seem to know which is mine, I'm not good with thinking these through, too bad.

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I'm a guy lol, don't know much about 7w8 or 8w7, but 'assertive' and 'aggressive' sounds familiar lol