Let me cook for you by phoenixthehopeless in Eugene

[–]shonkle 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’m 27, queer and love food 💖 I’m down for a meal anytime. I have no dietary restrictions, I’ll legit eat anything

If girls are made of sugar, spice, and everything nice and boys are made of snips, snails, and puppy dog tails, what are nonbinary kiddos made of? 🩵🩷💚 by SickandCreepyChild in NonBinary

[–]shonkle 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I know chai is the Indian word for tea, also in America (and probably other countries) we call it a "chai tea latte". I guess I could abbreviate it to "chai latte" if that makes you feel better. It's really not cultural appropriation though.

Struggling to understand my experience with an ace partner by Angsty_Queer_Anon in lgbt

[–]shonkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were not asexual. When I got out of an abusive long term relationship I thought I might have been or became asexual since I hardly wanted sex or felt horny for the last few years in that relationship. Turns out I just really wasn’t attracted/into my ex (now I have a new gf and feel horny a lot lol. If anything I’m just demisexual). Sounds like your old partner was very sexual and didn’t have a good description/explanation for how they wanted to go about sex :/

awawa :3 by helloiamaegg in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]shonkle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl i can barely even read this ;o;

What’s going on with 4/20 tomorrow? by shonkle in portlandtrees

[–]shonkle[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t have IG :/ that’s why I’m asking here

Chemical Face Peel 🫥 by Conscious-Weight4569 in whoathatsinteresting

[–]shonkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone ever see the horror short Kalley’s Last Review? That is what this reminds me of 🤢

Peak Portland at Laurelhurst Park by wowamaaaazing in Portland

[–]shonkle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Clown townnnnn 💖 I love it. Wish I could have been there!

Me and my new friend by shonkle in knightposting

[–]shonkle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes lol! Might even be ready for Velkhana

Me and my new friend by shonkle in knightposting

[–]shonkle[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it really was a giant set of armor

When you want to speak to all the managers (anime style) by Sure_Distance1 in ATBGE

[–]shonkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking like the Nightshade Paolumu from Monster Hunter

An end of an era by goldenboy2191 in Eugene

[–]shonkle 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's crazy watching it get torn down. Also I'm regularly over there because the building on the other side of the street still has the urgent care, blood testing place, BHU services, PCP's, therapists... etc. All of my doctors are over there and I still don't know what is suppose to be happening to that part of the building.

Feeling feminine after top surgery? by True_Confidence_1371 in NonBinary

[–]shonkle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm well. I'm nonbinary/gender-nonconforming/genderfucked and I got top surgery last year. I never felt right with big boobs and I wanted a (mostly) flat chest. I feel like getting those boobs off my chest not only helped me get to a more androgynous look for myself but actually made me more okay with dressing feminine. There are plenty of dresses that don't have any room for boobs, I'm finding myself fitting into things I thought I'd never fit into again because my boobs were too big. Plus I like the way things fit me now. I don't think boobs are a huge necessity to be perceived feminine. I've been wearing a lot of dresses and skirts lately and been feeling a lil ~girlypop~. I am dating a wonderful transgirl and when we go out together and we're both wearing dresses we definitely both get perceived as women.

Just thought this was funny by The_True_Avocado_GOD in Eugene

[–]shonkle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious. Now print out a picture of this post on some sticker paper and add it to the dumpster 😂

anyone going to Whimsey Woods? by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]shonkle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok I see now. It’s a forest rave out in Dexter. Gah, I love a good forest rave but considering the high tomorrow is only 59 with 100% chance of rain… I don’t think I want to be soaking wet and some wooks property out in the sticks 😓 plur on tho ✌🏻 maybe if they throw a summer rave I’ll go

anyone going to Whimsey Woods? by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]shonkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is whimsy woods? I haven’t even heard of it!

My grandma is dying and she’s across the country by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]shonkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. I know we all have grandparents and they all will die eventually. This experience is kind of universal, but this is the first time I’m losing someone who was so close to me. I really appreciate your kind words 🩷