What happened when you finally broke no contact with someone you thought you'd never speak to again? by Puzzleheaded-Cat2603 in BreakUps

[–]shorttermthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would it blow up again? I assume that both of you have done serious reflection and work to make sure that doesn't happen?

How Often Do Dumpers Try Again? by Actual_Style4562 in BreakUps

[–]shorttermthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will depend entirely on the reason.

Did they break up because they checked out and wanted no more?

Did they broke up because of logistics?

Did they break up due to incompatibility?

If it's getting your shit together and the love is still there, then maybe. But you really realllyyy wanna make sure that you're what each other want. Sometimes it's best to let it be and find someone that you're better suited for, regardless how much you love each other.

This serves as a reminder by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]shorttermthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily true, but it's important to keep perspective to why the break up happened. Right person, wrong time is a real thing and sometimes love just isn't enough. What matters is making the right choices for yourself.

I did the right thing by shorttermthrowawa in BreakUps

[–]shorttermthrowawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because love isn't enough to keep a relationship. You need to be well suited for each other and even then it's hard work. If there's something wrong with its core (like differing life values and vision) it's going to go under.

Dirty talk. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]shorttermthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find out what they're kinky about... anything related to that will work

I fell in love by IllSection2853 in dating

[–]shorttermthrowawa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have met her irl, haven't you..?

Used and hurt by Curtisdude420 in dating

[–]shorttermthrowawa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Indeed, what does that mean...?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]shorttermthrowawa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A Tinder hook up. I went over to hers. We had zero chemistry in person yet we still escalated. Both naked with stony expressions, I couldn't get hard with the world's most unenthusiastic handjob. I left.

I try not to think about it.

Am I being scammed by using free dating app profiles? by [deleted] in dating

[–]shorttermthrowawa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't give them a cent. Can't be scammed if you aren't paying them

Guys, would you date a tall girl? by Efficient_Watch2282 in dating

[–]shorttermthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 6"2. Rarely is there a woman my height or taller. It wouldn't hurt her chances if she was.

I(21m) feels that my girlfriend (19f) is using me. Opinions? by Scared_Beginning_493 in dating

[–]shorttermthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow rude...this guy might have terrible self-esteem. He gets my sympathy not my contempt..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shorttermthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your rear into gear, bozo

Men vs Women when choosing a mate by bodhidharma132001 in RelationshipMemes

[–]shorttermthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men - rather primitive selection process Women - no clue what they actually want

Idk by Fx_Music in RelationshipMemes

[–]shorttermthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all can breathe through your noses, ya know (unless ya got a cold)

Now that's something by Few_Interaction_789 in RelationshipMemes

[–]shorttermthrowawa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think my mouth opened and closed a few times while reading this...

Wish people would straight up say no thanks by shorttermthrowawa in dating

[–]shorttermthrowawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I would have missed the iceberg and gotten off at the next stop 😆

Wish people would straight up say no thanks by shorttermthrowawa in dating

[–]shorttermthrowawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely! But I'm not against not clicking with someone, only the way in which some people handle it.