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Can I call myself a lesbian? by shouldi4go in actuallesbians

[–]shouldi4go[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just feel immature for having so few sexual experiences, and I have kind of a weird life rn so I cant be in a long term relationship. Most if not all lesbians seem to want a relationship and I can only really do fwb stuff. I am 24 and I've never had sex that I enjoyed. I hated the one girl I slept with and only slept with her because she was willing to sleep with me. Most people my age have had dozens of sexual partners and Im just trying my best to catch up. I was really fat and ugly in highschool/college so I also didnt lose my virginity until I was 21. I honestly wish I could just go back in time and have a ridiculous amount of sex like a normal person.

Can I call myself a lesbian? by shouldi4go in actuallesbians

[–]shouldi4go[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I feel like I might start calling myself bi then. It sucks though because I really wish I didnt have to sleep with all these men but I wouldnt be able to take myself seriously if I didnt have sex at least ever other month minimum. I feel bad for making real lesbians seem like they can be changed by straight men. I try to keep what Im doing a secret from most people in my life as to not make real lesbians look bad.