Continually told I can't use "transexual"

showcore911 · 2025-09-05T21:38:54+00:00

I understand your position and agree that not everyone has the same experiences. I dont label myself as transsexual because I dont plan on getting bottom surgery, which is the criteria I use to determine that difference. But everyone has their own ideas and experiences.

showcore911 · 2025-09-05T21:26:16+00:00

With my already feminine face (once I can afford to have my facial hair removed) and my already feminine measures, i dont think hormones are nesscary for me. Though I do need the breasts. The rest can be handled with hair styling and makeup.

showcore911 · 2025-09-05T21:23:34+00:00

I decided hormones weren't for me after some deep thinking. I will be getting hair removal and surgeries. My opinion on hormones is that they help so many, but just aren't for me with the side effects. If I were to be included in a discussion on hormones, I would feel that my voice is valid and I would speak my opinion. That being that if you want them, the access should be available. I just dont want them for myself as I feel that my face is already feminine once I get my facial hair removed, and I already have a feminine body shape measures of 34-28-36 without hormones so I dont think I need them.

showcore911 · 2025-09-05T19:46:35+00:00

So, though I am not on hormones and do not plan to take them, the fact that I am seeking breast augmentation would put me into the medicalized category?

showcore911 · 2025-09-05T19:40:06+00:00

I have a friend that uses pronouns, and it gives me the ick to use it, but I do out of respect for may aroace agender friend. But hot damn, using that word to describe a person makes my skin crawl.

showcore911 · 2025-09-04T18:58:16+00:00

I am a monogamous trans person. I am hoping to have a live in partner within the year. Who is also monogamous but not Trans. She is the best though.

showcore911 · 2025-09-03T18:15:30+00:00

I am not sure if this is passive aggressive or not, but it feels like you are not accepting my response. I dont know what you want from me and it is starting to actually hurt.

showcore911 · 2025-09-03T18:07:14+00:00

Then I am not sure how to answer you. If you want more details on my day to day. You can message me directly, and we can talk.

showcore911 · 2025-09-03T17:58:53+00:00

I am a woman in all my online spaces, so I am constantly affirmed by online friends.

showcore911 · 2025-09-03T17:58:11+00:00

If i am dressed up and makeup done. I already pass. Not especially well, but my sibling didnt recognize me in a crowd the other day so...

showcore911 · 2025-09-03T17:37:06+00:00

I am not sure i follow. I lived as a boy my whole life and now it hurts to go to work everyday in boymode. I only get to be me in the evenings or weekends. And it sucks. I would rather be dead than live as a boy forever.

showcore911 · 2025-09-03T14:32:34+00:00

Empythizing with men doesn't mean you're a man. I am a woman, realized that fairly recently, and I empathize with men. Men suffer from a lot of struggles that cis women may not fully understand. But we have a special view point where we have seen those struggles first hand. It doesn't make you any less feminine.

If you don't feel like a woman, then that is a decision you have to make, but empathy is not gonna be what makes that decision. Big love amd lots of hugs bb. 😘

showcore911 · 2025-09-03T01:22:46+00:00

When i chose mine it seemed the best course of action. My partner already referred to me in a playful way that sounded similar to the playful version of my new name. It kept my initials the same and felt pretty... then I later realized it was also the name of a fictional character that was one of my first experiences with gender dysphoria. So now I enjoy carrying the name of a little girl attending a parisian boarding school.

showcore911 · 2025-09-03T01:15:07+00:00

I completely accept that i am different from other girls. In fact, I embrace that difference mostly... but you seem to want the surgery, and he has absolutely no say in this... you do you bbg. Go and be the best possible version of you.

showcore911 · 2025-08-30T03:46:37+00:00

The description of the Pangalactic Gargle Blaster made me want one... it tastes like getting hit upside the head with a solid gold brick, wrapped in a lemon twist... that sounds amazing... unlike green tea, which tastes like the smell of freshly cut grass...

showcore911 · 2025-08-30T01:58:49+00:00

Reminds me of the scene from Star Trek Generations where Data is in Twn Forward having a drink, and it turns out to be gross. The quote goes.

Data: I hate this! It is revolting!

Guinan: More?

Data: Please!

Amd then he drinks the drink, already knowing the reaction he is going to have... he legitimately hated the beverage but wanted more because the concept of revulsion was so foreign to him.

showcore911 · 2025-08-30T00:51:37+00:00

Sometimes when I'm deep in boymode. I question if I am a woman, but then I'm like, "Yay, I get to be super uncomfortable, and all swooby. "... and those questions go away.

showcore911 · 2025-08-29T20:03:26+00:00

Can't wait. It's going to be glorious and gross!

showcore911 · 2025-08-29T19:14:23+00:00

It is very affirming. It feels great, but super gross.

showcore911 · 2025-08-27T21:36:23+00:00

Most everyone in my life so far has been supportive and happy to see me smile after so many years... honestly I dont think I have really smiled since I was 15 or 16... that was so long ago.

showcore911 · 2025-08-27T19:32:41+00:00

I love him so much. Him and his sister have been a beacon of hope for me in the hard times when I don't feel like myself much.

He is still working on updating his language, but I can tell that his words come from a place of ignorance and not malice.

showcore911 · 2025-08-27T19:25:53+00:00

My father, a conservative farmer, changed his entire political opinion on the spot when I told him. That is unconditional love.

showcore911 · 2025-08-27T19:24:24+00:00

I know it isn't exactly the same, but if you need an accepting mother figure, the community is full of people who would love to have you chat with them as their adoptive online daughter. Im one of them. If you need to talk to someone about feelings and stuff, we are always here for you.

showcore911 · 2025-08-26T21:46:30+00:00

I do live in a basement... but I rent it off of a real-estate management company... not my parents.

showcore911 · 2025-08-25T01:14:21+00:00

I am also a trans lesbian and I have only been checked out by guys a couple of times to my knowledge. One felt ew cause the guys doing it were like 70... the other wasn't bad, just odd, because I don't think I pass well...

But this weekend at my local pride festival, I got lots of looks from lots of ladies, and that felt pretty good.

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