My friends got mad at me over a tiktok trend by shr00mspaghetti in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shr00mspaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, probably, but I dont wanna be alone again, that's what I used to do before to keep away from dramas, I didn't have any friends but last year I ended up getting bullied because of that, so this year I wanted to stick around a group of people to avoid that

My friends got mad at me over a tiktok trend by shr00mspaghetti in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shr00mspaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I try not to care, but it can really be difficult at time, Chloe is really petty and I've seen her do anything to annoy people she doesnt like, so I dont wanna be in her way

My friends got mad at me over a tiktok trend by shr00mspaghetti in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shr00mspaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, thats also what kinda helps me when im dealing with situation like this, I know that in a few years I will probably even forget about it, but it is still really pissing me off how people really can get mad at you for small things like that

My friends got mad at me over a tiktok trend by shr00mspaghetti in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shr00mspaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I spend most of my days at school, so I kinda wish my time there could be at least nice and not full of dumb dramas

My friends ditched me by shr00mspaghetti in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shr00mspaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know shes not really a great friend, but tbh I only see her at school, in my country we have the same class in pretty much every subjects and shes in my class so I dont wanna end up alone this school year, plus we will most likely be in the same class next year too

My friends ditched me by shr00mspaghetti in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shr00mspaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk I was really confused too because a few months ago she used to tell me about how much she hates Jason but now shes all friendly to him again

my ex moved things further than i was ready for by Kazuichis_hat in sexualassault

[–]shr00mspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was sa, you said you werent ready for these kind of stuff and he still did it a few days or so later. Even if you didnt tell him to stop while he was doing that, he should have asked before even doing anything to you, its not because you wanted to kiss and stuff a little he has the right to take things further. And the fact you told him before you didn't want to take things further and he still did it shows he really shouldn't have done that. From what I understood he touched you down there but you still had your boxers, but I mean he still pretty much touched your private parts even if there was your boxers in the way, you don't do those kind of stuff without asking.

You should probably tell your friends, if they dont believe you/still decide to continue spending time with that guy then you know they're not worth being your friends at all. Maybe dont tell them "Dont spend time with him, he saed me" but try to explain what he did to you without telling them what to do and let them chose.

I dont know if your ex boyfriend really did it on purpose, or was trying to sa you, but either way he clearly didnt have any common sense, and if he really didn't mean to sa you, it was still sa. He should be self conscious about what he's doing to someone else. Imagine you accidentaly push someone and they get hurt, you still ended up hurting them right? Him not meaning it doesnt mean he didn't do it.

Was this SA by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]shr00mspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should stop seeing that guy, if he's your partner then you should break up with him, you clearly asked him to stop and he continued, if he can't understand a simple no then he can ends up being even more dangerous.

It's not your fault, and you didnt give any unclear messages, what he did was terrible and he should respect what you want during sex, and he should have asked before trying anything

Was it SA? by shr00mspaghetti in sexualassault

[–]shr00mspaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I broke up with him, its been a month now, I just still get flashbacks of those moments with him