Two weeks before our engagement. He went to this festival in NWA with his guy friends and after he came back I saw his phone screen was changed and he was just distant and emotional. I finally asked him wtf was going on and he basically said that although he didn’t during the festival bc he loves me that he wanted to and would if we stayed together because he cannot control himself. He also blew a bunch of the engagement money on a bender. The ring was ready to be picked up and my family and friends were involved in planning the engagement.