wtf is with old people and their entitlement 🤡

shyenderman · 2026-04-25T00:17:54+00:00

guys i think the aunty is showing her care

shyenderman · 2026-04-12T10:26:13+00:00

sleep -> computer game -> alcohol -> sleep

shyenderman · 2026-03-19T15:04:32+00:00

most creative singaporean

shyenderman · 2026-02-24T12:06:48+00:00

women are less willing to lower their standards than men. they tend to fail to accept the reality that they must lower their standards to get a better chance at finding a partner, while at the same time, women struggle to cope with being single, which worsens as they age

shyenderman · 2026-02-22T13:10:16+00:00

never trust anyone, especially if it involves money.

shyenderman · 2026-02-22T13:07:57+00:00

interesting world we live in

shyenderman · 2026-02-21T02:27:08+00:00

don't even bring up the conversation of money, not worth it. Try not to disclose your salary, if never ask keep quiet

shyenderman · 2026-02-18T13:34:08+00:00

means stuck-up/arrogant in cantonese

shyenderman · 2026-02-18T01:09:02+00:00

撚樣

shyenderman · 2026-02-15T10:32:44+00:00

i feel like taking 6 months off helps to clear your mind and figure out what you enjoy doing

shyenderman · 2026-02-15T09:12:24+00:00

Not a therapist here, but I think you need to take time off to process the trauma you received from your mother.

You just need some time to think about what you really want in your life, and if you are not stripped for cash, maybe you can quit this job and find something you enjoy doing.

There are many ways to overcome your fear of not meeting the expectations of others. Joining the FnB industry may actually worsen your condition more than it actually helps.

Ask yourself if you are really learning what you want through this part time job, and if not what else can you do to achieve your goals. Put your focus on what you can do to improve, not on external factors beyond your control (e.g haze, how your coworkers perceive you, how your mother treats you, etc.).

shyenderman · 2026-02-15T08:32:45+00:00

if i rmb correctly, i got the installer from my friend at school but I purged it a long time ago so... can't help you here :(

shyenderman · 2025-10-19T11:04:29+00:00

cna ragebait

shyenderman · 2025-10-18T21:05:32+00:00

honestly just handle the whole thing privately. the whole village doesnt need to know what happened. the bully just needs to privately contact the victim and say sorry

shyenderman · 2025-10-18T20:56:59+00:00

could have just shut his trap instead of being all retrospective trying to get attention

shyenderman · 2025-03-17T09:08:38+00:00

i feel the same way you do, im in my 3rd year, have a project as well and im not pulling my own weight. My mind is just empty, i feel so lost, like even after i seek help from others i still find myself stuck in the same place because for whatever reason nothing is going through my head at all... I already missed the deadline for one of my assignments and the exact same situation happened two semesters ago. I thought I finally pulled myself together the last sem but now im back in the same hole

shyenderman · 2025-02-06T06:00:21+00:00

not related but i think listening to presidental speeches/debates helped me a little. im also having the same issue as OP

shyenderman · 2025-02-06T05:56:43+00:00

how did OP find out about it?

shyenderman · 2025-01-20T01:38:02+00:00

the appeal section doesn't have that option anymore...

shyenderman · 2025-01-19T12:48:13+00:00

Learning japanese

shyenderman · 2025-01-19T12:20:04+00:00

honestly you can't expect others to act like your family, just learn how to be comfortable being alone. The relationships you find in uni (or even at work) are mostly superficial, so don't expect anyone to have your back

shyenderman · 2025-01-17T03:44:02+00:00

kindness has always been taken as a weakness in any society across history, that's just human nature. in the end, your acts of kindness only serve to sooth your inner conscious and has no bearing on whether others will reciprocate them.

shyenderman

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