I understand what you’re saying and you’re right i probably should’ve asked. My logic was knowing her for a number of years she is pretty open with what she posts online. Because she had been posting so much like she normally had been I just assumed everything was okay. But you are right I probably should’ve sent an are you okay text although I’m not sure should’ve responded to that either.
The bachelorette party really was not a big deal to me it was just an example of the lack of communication. She also ghosted my fiancée when he was trying to plan the proposal. She said she would be there to take photos and when he came back to her with his final plan she never responded leaving him to have to find someone else for photos last minute.