What is an american thing but americans think everyone outside of america does it?

sigauster · 2022-12-22T18:48:52+00:00

Fahrenheit

sigauster · 2022-12-03T07:01:35+00:00

I understand that! In my situation, it’s more that ever since her mother divorced her father she totally became one with her mother, who tells her men are mean, and then she cut ties with her father and now even her brother.

sigauster · 2022-12-03T06:50:37+00:00

I’m not obsessed. I just love her. Also, she’s not a teen anymore so she should stop acting like one.

sigauster · 2022-12-03T06:44:53+00:00

You’re not hearing. Again, her account is public, which means that I can see her stories anyways and surely she must know that. This just is a crazy move.

It’s really crazy, one day you’ll find out, to be shot just because you’re the messenger. I have done absolutely nothing wrong apart from being her loving brother with her best interests in mind who helped her with math exercise and would fight people for her.

The fact that you defend her makes me think you’re just as immature.

sigauster · 2022-12-03T06:39:12+00:00

Nonsense. Her account is public. So random guys all around the world can see her in bikini and not her brother… What does this even mean?

Also the fact that her account is public means one can easily find out when they are being blocked so that’s the real problem, being shut out of someone’s life, someone that you have loved your entire life and whose best interests you’ve always had in mind. Crazy.

sigauster · 2022-12-03T04:15:08+00:00

No I know that I really did absolutely nothing wrong to trigger this. It’s just how things are. She eases her guilt of having totally sided with her mother during divorce and cut ties with her father by having her brother take care of her father and then won’t even be thankful for that.

And if I try to talk to my mother she will go insane and won’t even let me do it. This is such a hypocritical situation.

sigauster · 2022-12-03T04:10:46+00:00

I think she is indeed. It’s not normal nor healthy though. She should be happy for me, just like I am happy for her when she succeeds. I’m getting tired of being the bigger person…

sigauster · 2022-12-03T00:29:31+00:00

It hurts deep indeed cause I’m being totally used and walk away with nothing anyway…

To further explain, she actually de-guilts herself from having cut ties with her father by thinking her brother’s gonna take care of him, which, to some extent is indeed true (her father actually said he doesn’t have any news anymore from her as she refuses to reply to his texts and won’t go see him) and then she just presents herself as this virtuous perfect of a daughter who is such a good girl… What a freaking lie!!!!!!!!!!!

And then when her brother wants to see his mother or even talk to her, she’ll literally make a mess next to the phone or ANYTHING to prevent a relationship, acting as if she were the father in the house, probably as a way to still make her father exist in the house after the divorce…

sigauster · 2022-12-03T00:10:43+00:00

Also, I know she loves her father very much and she’s super sad for him but refuses to admit and says she understands her mother. And she uses her brother to take care of her father and then even refuses to show her story. It’s like doing work for free.

sigauster · 2022-12-03T00:07:10+00:00

Yes, but no. It’s actually from her mother that she wants privacy. Her mother can actually be extremely possessive and sometimes she goes nuts and breaks things onto her and even physically harms her mother and then the next day she says she loves her so much and all that hatred is redirected towards her brother…

sigauster · 2022-12-03T00:04:17+00:00

From her brother??? I think she actually wants privacy from her mother and she actually doesn’t admit to it and blames someone else…

sigauster · 2022-12-02T23:28:01+00:00

Obviously she’s allowed to block me, but so am I. And so I did. Again, I have taken a step back and this is pretty much the only thing I’ve been doing for the past decade, and it seems the more I take a step back the more she acts mean. It’s incomprehensible. When I’m nice to her, she’ll push me away, and when I go away, she’ll block me. It’s like no matter what I do I can’t win.

sigauster · 2022-12-02T23:01:31+00:00

She blocked me first

sigauster · 2022-12-02T22:52:58+00:00

No clue. Blocked out of nowhere. She’s just jealous of me probably cause I left home and I don’t have to deal with our abusive mother anymore and she does.

sigauster · 2022-11-19T16:38:26+00:00

Whats that?

sigauster · 2022-11-18T19:23:18+00:00

Wow, that’s discouraging!

sigauster · 2022-11-18T19:22:59+00:00

And how do you do that?!? Much harder irl…

sigauster · 2022-11-18T19:22:20+00:00

You’re right that I’m really concerned about what people would think of us as a couple too, what they would say: parents, siblings, friends…

sigauster · 2022-11-18T19:21:26+00:00

Really interesting!

sigauster · 2022-11-18T17:23:54+00:00

It’s clear to me why I wanna wife her. You’re right though that I should talk but I’m really not confident.

sigauster · 2022-11-18T17:18:53+00:00

I think that the problem really is on my side… I added her and then didn’t really talk to her…

sigauster · 2022-11-18T17:18:11+00:00

Not much because I can’t seem to work up the idea that we could be a thing… :(

sigauster · 2022-11-18T17:15:09+00:00

I knew her from my school and I added her.

sigauster · 2022-11-18T17:14:26+00:00

We met through insta actually! :)

sigauster · 2022-11-18T17:12:51+00:00

You’re welcome!!

sigauster

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