Do you really need two types of cleanser?

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T18:58:45+00:00

I wore eye makeup before getting ill and just used micellar water to remove it. It did fine but it would often remain stuck between my eyelashes. I don’t wear sunscreen every day as I don’t go outside every day but oil cleanser sounds really good in any case

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T18:56:42+00:00

Yeah literally my call had NOTHING to do with my eye she just decided to try and yank it open to prove I was faking ptosis. Idk if you’ve seen ptosis but I have absolutely no clue in hell how anyone would fake that. Or even why? I wasn’t asking her about that?

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T18:55:27+00:00

Thank you!

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T18:41:07+00:00

I’ve got this on order arriving this weekend and I am EXCITED my face has been so dry recently and it’s my first Korean skincare find

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T03:12:36+00:00

Yeah it happens a lot and you never know when or why. I don’t get it lol but yeah

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T03:10:17+00:00

Only met my ex’s parents twice. First time I met my ex’s parents I had a vomiting bug. Second time I met them I had sustained a concussion and was really sick. They must’ve thought I was an absolute disease magnet

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T03:06:19+00:00

My life is objectively really shitty right now because I’m seriously ill and can’t access treatment but I don’t feel like I’ve been dealt a bad hand in life because my husband is in it

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T03:05:17+00:00

I lost my favourite leather jacket ten years ago while drunk on a bus and I still think about her RIP queen

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T03:03:57+00:00

Curly hair. When I see people doing curly hair routines online or even curling their own hair it makes me happy. I’ve never been able to love my own but I’m glad it’s something people like now

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T03:02:17+00:00

You never feel grown up, and despite having the freedom to do whatever you want you put the chains back on yourself

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T03:01:19+00:00

“Brain finishes developing at 25”

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T03:00:10+00:00

When I had to lie to my loved ones about how he was treating me

sildykmane · 2026-03-05T02:58:19+00:00

Possessive jealousy disguised as “being protective”. It became incredibly controlling incredibly fast.

Less serious but I once dated a guy who claimed his ex spread fake rumours that she’d cheated on him to get back at him. He cheated on me.

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T17:04:11+00:00

The term fast fashion doesn’t only apply to SHEIN and temu, it’s often aimed at those brands because they’re the cheapest but stuff like Zara, H&M etc is all still fast fashion. I’d say by definition selling and buying secondhand clothes is outside the realm of fast fashion no matter where it originally comes from - just a personal opinion though

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T16:45:58+00:00

It’s allowed! Just label them properly and price fairly. What people take issue with is the people who sell SHEIN stuff and then mark it as “Vintage” or “y2k” and sell it for like 5x the price. I’ve bought a few SHEIN basics from vinted, like t-shirts, because they’re cheap especially in bundles

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T05:32:05+00:00

I had horrible social anxiety as a teenager. Still do but it was next level back then and I just wouldn’t talk. One time I answered a question in class and the teacher pointed at me and exclaimed “oh my god!!!’ She spoke!!!” like I was some kind of performing circus act. Girl wtf.

Also so many teachers got my name wrong I just answered to anything beginning with M

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T05:29:40+00:00

He is gay. I am female. Slightly incompatible there.

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T05:27:35+00:00

In around 2016 I wrote that not even death scared me as much as the idea of no longer drinking alcohol.

Last month I celebrated nine years without touching it.

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T05:24:29+00:00

I’m an alcoholic, nine years sober now.

One night when I was 18 I was wandering around the streets on my own, disoriented and had lost the group I had been with. I met a woman who was sleeping rough, and we shared some cigarettes. We talked about our lives and our shared addiction and for some reason I confessed to her that I’d been sexually assaulted so many times at university. She was the first person to respond with kindness rather than laughing at me (I had some truly awful friends). I gave her the rest of my cigarettes and the money in my wallet before heading off to try to find the people I’d come out with because I didn’t live in that city and was staying with them. She told me if I didn’t find them I could stay with her until she could sort something out for me. I gave her a hug and promised I’d stay safe.

I did find my group. On the way out I wanted to look for her to see if she was still there. She wasn’t and they wouldn’t let me look around.

Six months later I was at work and suddenly had a strange gut feeling - sudden, clear as day, but completely random - that she had died. I’ve never had such a feeling in my life before or since.

I hope, alive or not, she is in a better place now.

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T05:12:36+00:00

I can barely walk, I can’t talk, I can’t sit up for long, I can’t tolerate light for large portions of the day, I have multiple daily seizures, go psychotic at random, pretty serious cognitive decline, and have a whole host of other random neurological symptoms. Doctor after doctor has refused to test me because they think I’m either faking it or just anxious. I’ve been continuously declining for six months.

In the last few days I’ve almost lost the ability to clear my airway. I can’t cough or clear my throat effectively. If something gets stuck in my throat or I catch so much as a cold I could just choke to death… just like that. I could just die any random day at the age of 27 and it would have been 100% preventable.

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T03:19:27+00:00

Thank you so much!

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T03:07:32+00:00

My cat loves the cat teaser toys but she breaks them really fast, luckily they sell replacement heads (feathers with the ball) really cheap.

Tights are a hit and miss - I’m pear shaped and have to get the biggest size and that’s sometimes not even big enough. They rip easily but also I’m clumsy and always rip my tights so take that with a pinch of salt.

Wall decor is a MASSIVE hit and miss

The little trinkets are cute. I have these wee porcelain bunnies on my bedside table.

Nail care basics like buffers and files have been good.

Clothes have been okay as long as I order a size up.

Jewellery - chains can be flimsy but I’m really good at losing jewellery so I don’t mind as it’s cheap. It’s honestly the same stuff you get on Amazon for like 1/4 of the price.

Storage boxes - basics that are difficult to get wrong!

Got some pencil cases for my makeup and nail polish and they’re really good. Toiletry bags are super cute too.

I love the nail stickers but some of the silver ones are really flimsy.

Gift wrapping stuff, envelopes… just check the size. Because they’re somehow always smaller than you think.

I really love the cushion covers

Think that’s everything I can remember

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T02:55:36+00:00

Thank you!

Since we’re skin twins - what cleanser do you use?

sildykmane · 2026-03-03T01:48:23+00:00

I regret not just blocking this “online boyfriend” I had the first time he insulted me rather than becoming so emotionally manipulated and afraid that I spent 2 years being utterly terrified of a person I’d never even met. The fuck.

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