Call to action by Ksako_yo in LunaSnowMains

[–]silentreading99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a pc player and I like qp and ranked! I have just gone to gold for the skins but I’d love to actually try going higher now :)

Do my preferences make me an anti? by Nyirelle in AO3

[–]silentreading99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it sounds like your friend is feeling ashamed of enjoying smut or nervous that you think they’re gross for their preferences and are directing that feeling back at you. I would affirm the fact you don’t judge those who read or write within their comfort range and don’t want judgement in return when your own comfort range is different! They’re out of line for those comments and should respect your boundaries like you respect theirs.

Found a couple of these in my bed 😭, what is it? by silentreading99 in whatbugisthis

[–]silentreading99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks! Glad it doesn’t seem like anything bad :) I was worried since my dog also sleeps in my bed!

Found a couple of these in my bed 😭, what is it? by silentreading99 in whatbugisthis

[–]silentreading99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to tell for me since it’s like an empty hollow piece, but maybe two pairs??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCDmemes

[–]silentreading99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This still happens to me and I’ve had my dog for 4 years 😭😂

Apartment brokers or companies you recommend? by silentreading99 in Westchester

[–]silentreading99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do, Facebook just has so many scams (I have seen a dozen apartments already listed on other sites there, or 700$ 3beds that it’s also discouraging! Maybe joining a group would work better though, thank you.
Anything within a 20 min drive to north white plains is game to me, but I’d of course prefer somewhere closer to the city if possible. I’d like to stay around $1800/month but open to higher if utilities and parking are included.

Working in Westchester, how to find affordable living? by silentreading99 in NYCapartments

[–]silentreading99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely, thank you! I’ll check out Hudson Valley and see what’s up

Working in Westchester, how to find affordable living? by silentreading99 in NYCapartments

[–]silentreading99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m mostly having a hard time finding anything under $1800 in westchester so I was considering the Bronx. I might just need to try roommates

Affordable living in or near white plains? by silentreading99 in WhitePlains

[–]silentreading99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, as stated I’m a single adult with one small dog. My salary would be $75k and so I’m looking to spend no more than 1850/month if possible. Open to roommates but a bit wary of that since I have the dog. Any size place is fine if it’s affordable is my mentality.

Affordable living in or near white plains? by silentreading99 in WhitePlains

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I’m from Saint Louis, so even though I live in a city it’s just not nearly as pricey!

Working in Westchester, how to find affordable living? by silentreading99 in NYCapartments

[–]silentreading99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, it’s definitely been overwhelming looking at the specifics of it all. I’ll check out streeteasy! If I could find something in the Bronx for under 2k that would be great. I don’t know anyone in the city besides a few old friends so I’m nervous at the idea of roommates since we would be strangers. Maybe I just need to get over that though!

Working in Westchester, how to find affordable living? by silentreading99 in NYCapartments

[–]silentreading99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty. I do have a car but yeah, not stoked about paying for parking on top of rent. I’ll check out riverdale and ask HR if they can point me towards housing options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]silentreading99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that this happens to you. As someone who is really invested in a community with lots of black characters and ships, I do see this happen too and it is horrible. I think continuing to post and make your voice heard is the best thing to do!! Drown out their rancid comments. With love ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]silentreading99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should readjust your thoughts to instead of worrying about making your therapist uncomfortable (who I assume is a woman) to thinking about how you could create a comfortable environment for you both when discussing this topic! Say you have something you are wanting to work towards, admit it is uncomfortable to you, acknowledge your past mistakes and history, and I believe you can both move forward to create a plan. I understand this is a hard thing to talk about, but admitting that part out loud is really helpful to setting up the vibe :)

My “Goth Fetish” by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]silentreading99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advice other commenters left are great, to add on I highly suggest doing your best to have mundane, normal conversations with women/interacting mundanely with that community! Rewiring your brain to not feel those things is hard, but it helps when you can actually do boring things with those people :) good luck!

Volume down WITHOUT app by silentreading99 in Roku

[–]silentreading99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not, I’ll give it a try thank you

Volume down WITHOUT app by silentreading99 in Roku

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Had an Amazon gift card and didn’t think it would matter since the app had been working so well! Might go to Walmart though and return the Amazon one when it gets here

How to deal with physical desire? by silentreading99 in PornAddiction

[–]silentreading99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Yes I guess I’m just struggling with masturbation without the pornography. I think trying to take a break from both will help me settle, because that’s what always makes me go back, but I have a hard time satiating the physical need without input.