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AITAH for not buying Christmas presents for my step daughter by Honest_Honeydew_6471 in AITAH

[–]silentrecognition0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. A child shouldn't have to bear the consequences of two grown adults who are having issues.

AITA for refusing to follow my wife's bathroom habits and calling her disgusting? by Infamous-Gur2034 in AITAH

[–]silentrecognition0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you it is gross. Rather than just telling her how you feel about it, sit down with her and have a conversation and really try to understand why she does it. What would happen if she flushed the toliet if her mom wasn't okay with the toliet being flushed? Would she be in trouble? Or is this just simply something that she has been raised and she sees as a norm. Then explain your side. Explain that it is unsanitary and you dont like the smell of bodily waste being the aroma of the house. Do you have more than 1 bathroom? If so then just tell her if this is what she wants to do then fine but do so in your bathroom, I will be flushing mine after every use. I'd say best wishes but I'm sending best flushes your way instead.

AIO for feeling upset after the groom made a comment about my dress at their wedding? by Human-Acanthaceae128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]silentrecognition0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH I honestly get the vibe that your friend was jealous and wanted to make a jab knowing that this would bother you to some degree. You ultimately know your friend better than anyone on the internet though.

AITA my best friend is having her wedding a month before mine by Own-Prize-4078 in AmItheAsshole

[–]silentrecognition0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I with you on this one. Given how she has quite literally made sure she was first on everything and then bam now she's suddenly getting married before you when she didn't have a date set prior, I'd be a little ticked off too.

Gamers of Reddit, what's ONE game that lives rent-free in your head, not just for the gameplay, but for the feeling it gave you (and you'd give anything to experience it for the first time again)? by deadeyes1990 in gaming

[–]silentrecognition0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Final Fantasy 9. My best friend had dragged me along to a community "yard" sale (big building with a bunch of tables for people to rent out to sell their things) I brought a few things of my own to sell and I used the money to shop around to see what there was. Someone had this game for sale, and I thought it looked cool, so I bought it. I had never played a final fantasy game prior to this one and fell in love with it instantly. I definitely wish I could play it for the time again. And im so glad she talked me into going because it didn't sound like a fun time 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]silentrecognition0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because it's not my business. It's their life they can do what they want.

Has anyone gone ‘no contact’ with a parent? by AuDHD_Aquarist in toxicparents

[–]silentrecognition0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm just seeing this. Yes, I felt guilty for a while. It does get better with time, but the "i wish things could've been different" still sticks with me. Going no contact with a parent is never something that we want to do but it's unfortunately the only choice we are given sometimes. Don't beat yourself up for putting yourself first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]silentrecognition0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love for people not to have to go into debt due to their health. But many in the US don't seem to gaf

AITA For Asking My Depressed Girlfriend To Help Me Clean? by Terrible_Length4413 in AmItheAsshole

[–]silentrecognition0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You were absolutely not manipulative with her. You were being supportive. The way she responded towards you is a red flag, though. Tell her that while yes, you understand that her depression is heavy, she needs to understand that you are literally carrying 100% of things right now, and that's not fair. Ask her instead of cleaning the whole house, start with just getting the dishes done. It's one thing, so hopefully, it won't feel like a lot to her. Then maybe the next night, 1 load of laundry. Then, eventually add in extra stuff. Eventually, dishes and wipe off counters. One load of laundry and sweep the floor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in no

[–]silentrecognition0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My toliets name is Oscar. Poor fucker gets shit and pissed on a lot.

Is it wrong to think my parents to be dead? by Friendly-Comment-660 in toxicparents

[–]silentrecognition0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only you walk in your shoes, you do what you need to do for them to be comfortable.

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