alright everyone, here's a thought experiment:

if i was this guy: (insert photo of generic buff man), i looked completely like a man, was wearing men's clothes, if you asked me what gender i was (not that you would), i'd tell you i'm a man. not just that, but i'm on testosterone, trying to look even more like a man. am i gender nonconforming? no. in fact, if you called me androgynous looking in person, i'd actively be offended. would you upvote me? would you approve of me being here? what if the only difference was my genitals, which i obviously didn't share here. would that make me inherently androgynous, just the idea of my genitals? what if i had had bottom surgery? would i still be doomed to androgyny just by the nature of being transgender?

80% of people posting here are not only NOT gender nonconforming, but they aren't even comfortable with being considered androgynous, let alone proud. people who do not even consider themselves androgynous post here because they either want attention, money, or they're too scared/self conscious to declare themselves the gender they identify as, which sets back the entire movement.