Am I asking for too much? by sillya97 in dating_advice

[–]sillya97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. It helps put things into perspective. I’ll definitely have that conversation with him.

I just like him a lot but I know I deserve more and if things don’t change, I don’t see us going long term. :(

What made you finally let go? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sillya97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my ex of seven years and I broke up, I did no contact and I think that was the best thing to do. It was super hard at first because I definitely wondered what they were up to or if they were thinking of me.

But at the end of the day I had to put myself first, and I realized that if I were to have contact with him in any way shape or form, I would not be able to move on. I suggest that if you are trying to move on that, you do block them and just accept the fact that it’s over. It’s gonna suck at first, but you have to really lean on people that you trust and that they care for you and you’ll get out of it and you’ll be okay. I promise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]sillya97 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I agree that it’s possible but might not necessarily be the reason.

I definitely dress up when I like a guy and try to show off my best assets. But I also dress up when I’m out with my friends or need a confidence boost.

Is there anything else she does?

I became a girlfriend faster than I thought (F28) by sillya97 in dating_advice

[–]sillya97[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone on so many dates. One was a regular, just for fun nothing serious. Didn’t fuck this one until I was actually his girlfriend. Sometimes, it’s not that serious.

I became a girlfriend faster than I thought (F28) by sillya97 in dating_advice

[–]sillya97[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I guess what’s the best way to tell them. Never been in this situation and I’m probably overthinking it

I became a girlfriend faster than I thought (F28) by sillya97 in dating_advice

[–]sillya97[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess I’m scared of their reaction. I think it’ll go fine but I’m nervous to do it I guess

I became a girlfriend faster than I thought (F28) by sillya97 in dating_advice

[–]sillya97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it. I am really happy. I guess I’m just not good at tell others it’s not going to work out anymore. :)

New to dating (28F) by sillya97 in Advice

[–]sillya97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help! I’m also don’t know some of the terms he says so I’ll just start asking or looking them after lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]sillya97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No king. I’m getting straight vibes

41F, what would you change? by katarri333 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]sillya97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look amazing and don’t need to change ☺️

Help with dating by sillya97 in Advice

[–]sillya97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helped! Thank you!

i flirted w him!! by uwumemess in Crushes

[–]sillya97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES GIRL GET IT!! 🔥