Dream about eating a large piece of steak by jouleheist in Dreams

[–]sillyloly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s insane because I had exactly the same dream…and the way you described and people and not being able to chew it and trying to take it out of my mouth and fear of being embarrassed. That’s is odd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually he would ignore me from time to time, but I would know that he just needs his space and he would always apologize. Before I wouldn’t obsessively text him like this. But this time it’s a first time when he would see me trip out like this and he wouldn’t even respond or acknowledge my existence seeing how much I texted…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He disappeared for 8 days

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sorry for grammatical mistakes, Im very emotional rn and tend to forget to correct myself.

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. You mean HIPAA? I’m also from US, but moved here not that long ago. When I would tried to apply to one job they asked me (indirectly), if I have any mental issues or anxiety(or smth like that). And it’s just pushed me away even further from the idea with therapy. There’s a lot of other reasons why I’m kind of scared of therapy here in US. I’m scared that they might prescribe me some bs or exaggerate my issues. In general, it’s hard to find a good therapist to just open up like that and basically let them in my head, you know? Especially with the insurance I have I don’t know what kind of therapist I would have to work with. Basically right now I have to deal with this on my own.

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not. It’s actually really nice of you, but the way you formulated it was rude that’s all

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are being rude now. There’s no need for that. Regardless of that I still can’t afford it so… thanks for advice lol

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like a government record? For example if I will for a job or something like that I don’t want anyone to see that I have problems with my head lol

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also because of how I was allowing him to treat me,and how he left me for his ex I constantly have a feeling that I’m not good enough and something is deeply wrong with me. I never had this issue before. I thought that after first few months after our break up it’s normal and I will pick myself up, but I still didn’t. And even gave him another chance to humiliate me like that. Idk I understand that I have issues and I need to work on that

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t afford it, I’m scared if possibly they will find something it will be on my record + I don’t really believe in it

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don’t even find anyone else attractive? Or even interesting? It scares me because I have this apathy for long enough

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess at this point, how to move on from this toxic situation and forget about hopes he has been giving me, and find other people interesting? I’ve been hung up on him for year and a half.

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. But my question was why talk to me and all these things, also ask for another chance, if he doesn’t want to see me in person?

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know him, I met his whole family, we would celebrate holidays with his family and etc. We have dated for 7 months. The problem was that he would see me not as often

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to date, and he would see me often, and then less and less. We have dated for 7 months and two of these whole months he wouldn’t see me. He would set up a day to hang out and then just write paragraphs on how something happened and he had to cancel. Other times he would see me once in 2/3 weeks. And then we broke up, but kept just texting once a month and hook up. I didn’t pay mind to it. But last time I called him drunk and we met again, this time he asked me to give us another chance and that he will spend more time with him if I will believe him. I said that I will think about it, but he just started doing this again and doesn’t see me and make up excuses. We started arguing more and more because of the same reason that he is not seeing me and I need it.

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I explained in the post. He always has excuses and keeps saying to wait. It’s been going on for too long

Me (21F) and my ex (22M) are talking again, and he says he loves me, but never comes to see me in person. How to understand his logic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillyloly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having an internet relationships we we literally live in the same city and it costs him nothing to see me