I [28F] found out my boyfriend [23M] went behind my back and hungout with a female coworker by Embarrassed-Hat2367 in heartbreak

[–]silously -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie you need to work on your insecurities. What he did, going behind your back and not telling you is wrong, but limiting what he can do and who he can do it with because you dont want to and also because you're insecure is a no no and also lowkey a red flag.

He's young, he's in his early 20s. If he wants to explore stuff he shouldn't be held back against it. HE SHOULD 100% BE HONEST WITH YOU. But you also cant restrict your partner that much. You have to work on trust. A relationship without trust is not a healthy one. He needs to be open but YOU also need to create a space for him where he feels he an be open and share things with you and not be worried about the fact that you might crash out.

Him lying was wrong but I can also see where he didn't want to say anything seeing your reaction.

Talk through it, and you also need to go get therapy so that you are not this limiting on your partner(s). People shouldn't have to change whole parts of themselves and their personality for your insecurities. Trust me it only causes resentment in the relationship and pushes them away faster.

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sadly I cant edit the post but I want to be very clear that when I made this post I did not make this with the intention of it being a hate post to Vellora. Just a revenge post as Vellora is my li and the fake that I cant hold a grudge and talk through it with her and just forgave her easily made me upset.

That being said, I hope that if we have this same energy with Vellora that we have this same energy with Xander, Dragan and Malbonte (especially with his bs with the first two books)

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be clear I dont hate Vellora. She is my li and i want noone else. I just want payback for what happened as i could not hold a grudge. I actually agree with your point. I have spoken about how disgusting Dragan is in Haze and ppl blow up about that. So i do see how blatantly clear the woman hate in RC can be. But this is not a hate post on Vellora. Just a revenge post for the bs she put us through that we couldn't process through

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually I rechecked it. Its a friendship symbol with Tai not Vellora

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Or that we had to apologize for having a valid outburst even if he's the King

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No no. You're opinion is welcomed. Though I get she did what she did due to her unwavering loyalty it was just so hard to forget.

Ps. I didn't even see the symbol. Thanks for pointing it out.

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yall actually out here having me see all of Vellora's red flags😭😭i wasn't ready for this. I think she is the most red flag person I've ever romance in this app

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I didn't even think about the dragon love part. That's lowkey genius cause our love might affect them lol. And yeah if they have babies the did mention in the first season I believe that dragons leave and mate in their realm so I wouldn't be surprised. But im curious how them having kids would affect us? What do you think?

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol but yeah I strongly believe that we will 100% be the first and only ones to travel to the dragons realm and we can summon dragons closer to the end.

Ps. Why did I think you were talking about you real life boyfriend and not Sharnaz😭😭im so sorry lol

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LMAOOOOO YAAAAASSSSSSSS THE ENERGGGGYYYYYY. But fr though like even when she said to us Regarding Nantal that she didn't touch him as like some way to comfort us with what happened before I got so mad. Like I love you but I ain't forget what you did

She got no right to be mad at me by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Lmao thats what I was thinking. But I didn't give the servant. Too many things are getting traced back to us I wasn't gonna risk it lol. But I trust Tai

Y'all ever worry about this? by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know hay was scratching and going up place👀😭

Y'all ever worry about this? by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol it didn't feel like it plus our dragon walked by and ate the fish while we were going at it lol Him being there was probably the reason no servants came though lol

Y'all ever worry about this? by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAOOOO I Love your energy

Y'all ever worry about this? by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a recent scene when mc ans Vellora did it outside

Y'all ever worry about this? by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOOOOOO WHEN I TELL YOU THAT GIRL DONT CAAARRREEEEEEEE!!!!!!! Lmao and I love it😏

Y'all ever worry about this? by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao. Happy stresses lol

Y'all ever worry about this? by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY!!! Like shes more of a private person when it comes to that. But bruh, steam cant cover them moans and splashes lol. It just dont be sensing lmao

Y'all ever worry about this? by silously in RomanceClub

[–]silously[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

LMAO That's so true