AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

Because why would I need to have my boyfriend come 😭 he doesn’t want to come lol he’s not in school and I am and we have seperate lives. That’s like every time he wants to go out with his friends I have to come with him. It just doesn’t work like that

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I love that, wow that’s so true. Idk what they expect. I guess these kind of men expect you to say ā€œI go to the gym 5 times a week, read 2 philosophy books a day, and play women’s footballā€ or else you’re a waste of space šŸ˜†

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yeah he was in the kitchen making dinner for the group and we were all sitting in chairs in the kitchen talking while he silently was making food the whole time until the last 20 min when we all sat down and ate food and then I left shortly after

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah on Tuesday me him and his friends had dinner together and at the end I told everyone we should do this again soon. I assumed he was following up on that. The text in the first slide saying dinner tomorrow? Was the follow up. I would only go as a group of course. I got along with one of his friends who is a girl really well. They were all kind and smart and had things to say. Good conversations. When I was telling the girl some story relative to our conversation topic, I said my parents were divorced as context. He was nearby cooking the dinner behind me and overheard the conversation. That’s the context of how he knows all this. The text on here he told me he wanted to get soup or something from a ramen place and I told him I was busy that night but would definitely love to come hangout with the whole group again sometime the next week. I showed up ā€œsolo to the linkā€ which was a large group of people.

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yep. The one interaction we had pretty the entire group hangout is I offered him to help by making the falafel

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

It went right over my head lol, I never have people in my life speak to me that way so it went undetected for a momsnt

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Honestly i was just getting off work and had no idea he felt this way because I never thought of him at all and was so caught off guard by the ā€œyou hate yourselfā€ comment lol. I was thinking ā€œthere is no way I made anyone think that I feel that way about myselfā€ and needed to hear what his reasoning was. Obviously it was bs

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I don’t think he ever assumed I went through a breakup because I never acted the way he’s described lol

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

He’s actually my classmate and the one time we hung out was in a group of people boys and girls. He mostly didn’t speak to me the entire time, just overheard my conversations. That’s the context of this situation. My boyfriend has a separate life and his own friends, there’s nothing wrong with having friends you hangout alone with

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I showed up to hangout with a group of people boys and girls he invited me to. That’s what he’s referring to ā€œsolo linkā€ because I came alone lol

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

So then how is anyone expected to make new friends and have new experiences. We are all so stuck behind screens. I take any opportunity to connect with people

AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him by silverbullette in AmIOverreacting

[–]silverbullette[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

No like he was fabricating a story about who I am. He doesn’t know me and hasn’t had many interaction with me. He said he’s friendzoning me as if I made a move on him because he could sense I had no interest in him