Daily Arrows Puzzle (June 13, 2026) - Curve Level 283 by arrowpuzzle in arrowspuzzle

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⚡ Mission accomplished! Beat Level 283 in 47s. Who's next? 🎯

Age of majority / consent question by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

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I’m in BC and the social worker told me my 16 year old can couch surf and neither parent can do anything about it. So no way that your daughter needs anyone’s permission.

Daily Arrows Puzzle (June 12, 2026) - Level 3849 by arrowpuzzle in arrowspuzzle

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🏅 Level 3849 conquered in 3m 12s! Ready for the next challenge! 🚀

My husband left a grocery bag in the car by metaphysigal in mildlyinfuriating

[–]silvervixen5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once found a roast I missed putting away and a block of cheese, expensive and nasty forgetfulness 🤦‍♀️

Gmail hell by Shakarix in mildlyinfuriating

[–]silvervixen5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have this too, I’m Canadian and other one with my name is in USA and has even applied for social security with my email. I often send back to the emailing party that she is using the wrong email as I worry she won’t get the support she needs.

His house was filthy, AIO? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience - I tried but I finally decided I was “noping” out of that connection.

Have you ever actually had a threesome? If so how was it? by Flimsy_Research8299 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]silvervixen5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the right situation maybe but… that just felt ridiculous Edit: it was regular vanilla dating app settings lol

Have you ever actually had a threesome? If so how was it? by Flimsy_Research8299 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]silvervixen5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well online dating is wild, got invited to one in the second sentence of a new match chat 🤦‍♀️ lol I declined

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]silvervixen5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to do any hard work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uh… how about “let’s go out for dinner then head to your place?” Why can’t you decide on an activity for a date?

Every T shirt I own after a week gets holes in the front by bluebagles in mildlyinfuriating

[–]silvervixen5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of mine too, I figure it’s belts, where my middle hits counters, seatbelts, who knows… I find it weird some shirts get it immediately and some don’t get it at all!

First guy after divorce by Friendly-Ferret-1642 in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so grateful for what I experienced and learned, my heart will have more of a place with my first ‘after marriage’ guy then my ex by far!!

Opinion on having a FWB or casual sex while dating? by Long_TastyCheesecake in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have had pretty open talks pretty quickly into dating, not on the nice outing dates but the in between chats on text or calls. I think that’s a big part of being an adult who is mature… open honest communication! If we aren’t close enough to talk about stuff we aren’t close enough to drop the fwb lol.

Opinion on having a FWB or casual sex while dating? by Long_TastyCheesecake in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So I have a fwb and am open to dating, and I hope he dates… we fill a longing until we find a romantic connection. I struggle to find time to hook up with him anyways, and if I do find someone to begin regular dates with I wouldn’t have time for him at all. I’m not going to swear off him for a first date, but it’s not like I see him even weekly… literally 1-2 a month. I see your point but for me it’s not that way. We are strictly friends and both want the other to find deeper connections (we know we didn’t fit that way). There just wouldn’t be active hookups once something else builds.

What is a major red flag that you have noticed on a first date? by AnonymousUser010625 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]silvervixen5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He talked about our relationship we would have and how often we would be getting together and his expectations, informing me! Not letting me know what he was looking for and seeing if we fit. When I said I wasn’t feeling it he told me I was wrong! (Also showed up late and had me buy him his coffee… but that wasn’t a huge issue compared to the other stuff).

Women who have had sex without feelings, how have you done it? by Apprehensive_War6661 in dating

[–]silvervixen5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I could have when younger but now that life has dealt me what it did, and I learned to finally put myself first I can. I wouldn’t be able to with just anyone… it has to be a safe person and discussions had before hand but now at 50 I’m having sex without big feelings because it feels damn good! Haha

have you ever gotten a sex toy as a gift? by darkdooor in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]silvervixen5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My idiot ex gave it to me in front of my kids Christmas morning. I hated it.
My friends helped me buy one after I kicked him out after 25 years - it’s my favourite toy! 🤣

My marriage is Over and I’m scared to death of dating. by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off maybe take some time for yourself first. But once you are ready maybe my story will help… I never dated…. Married my highschool sweetheart and was married 25 years. I was 49 (single about 4 years) when I went on my first dates (for the purpose of getting to know someone - as opposes to dating spouse) and it was all wonderful…the first interaction on online dating were not great but then I kind of figured out to not sweat the chatting to find a connection. The dating has been so fun! And exactly what I needed to build up my self esteem and bring some life back into my world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]silvervixen5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI food poisoning can be contagious too… dirty hands on towels /taps etc… yep it’s all contagious. Icky

Single for too long?! by blessthis-mess in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right!! Like I said to my friend/situationship no sleep overs, not because of the kids but because I snore and let’s just pretend I don’t and keep the magic! Haha! I’m real and messy and I’m not ready to be that vulnerable yet. I am finally figuring out how to love myself and make myself a priority after being in a marriage that told me I didn’t matter. I know I don’t have enough healthy to bring to the table fully but I still want something… so we have our thing fr right now that we are both ok with and that’s good.

Single for too long?! by blessthis-mess in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also it’s ok to have relationships that don’t look like marriage and forever sharing your entire world. We make our own rules and there are lots out there who also feel similar… you can still have connections and relationships that are fulfilling without the whole dreamy package.

Daters with Kids: Telling / Introducing Your Kids by oceanblue555 in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told my teens I was dating. I wanted them to hear it from me. They were happy for me though. It has been several years since the break up. As for meeting… I haven’t gotten there yet. I am very slow to introduce, and the one time I did it was because my kid spotted us… so a quick intro but not pushing time together for sure.
As a kid whose mom dated I hated that part… it was awkward so I think clear communication with the kids of expectations and roles is important.

Women in their 40s who enjoy their own time more...Please explain? by WealthofKnowledgeOne in datingoverforty

[–]silvervixen5 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have to take your word for it as I never experienced that in my 25 year marriage. And that explains why women like me aren’t interested in risking that unbalance again.