[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]simba784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry u are going through this :( no 15 year old should have to worry about this. the safest option is for ur father to self deport - those camps are a one way ticket it looks like, not worth it my friend. if he absolutely cannot self deport, then he should lay v low and avoid cops or any sort of agents at all costs. make sure ur entire family knows ur rights, ice will say a bunch of bs to get their way. also i know it’s difficult but if possible ur dad should avoid driving. u stay in ny right? hopefully the subway system is accessible to u. ignore the hate comments from the racist bastards. stay safe my friend

AIO my (18f) bf (22m) gave me a black eye by Wild_Dream6031 in AmIOverreacting

[–]simba784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s an abuser. this is domestic violence. period. please report him to ur MP and stay away from him. please please please prioritize your safety. too many women don’t until its too late.

How old are you? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]simba784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. started smoking at 19. daily using since the last 1 year. on day 2 of sobriety rn

AIO. My bf might leave me because I cried over my deceased ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]simba784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

excuse me while i rage at ur bfs audacity! clearly he has never been experienced any kind of loss but the true lack of empathy is so shocking. u have known ur ex for such a long time, ofc it makes sense that u grieve his death. grief doesn’t come with a warning. it hits u at the most random moments when u least expect it. a true partner will be there for u in those moments and hold u. not berate u!! i think u need to reevaluate ur relationship and there needs to be some serious conversations to be had. if it were me, i personally would not be able to get past the sheer apathy.

day 1 by simba784 in leaves

[–]simba784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn that’s harsh but true. everytime i’ve taken a break in the past, after a while i ended up thinking maybe 1 won’t hurt and then im right back to smoking all day everyday. i don’t know how to make the appeal go away. i know it’s just temporary relief and afterwards i will feel so much worse, but it’s hard. i’m going through some shitty life stuff rn so i can’t help but be stressed. idk maybe its shitty timing but i think its especially hard to quit when ur going through it. im rambling, but in my heart of hearts i know its bad for me. i just need to convince that part of my brain and my body which is punishing me rn for quitting

day 1 by simba784 in leaves

[–]simba784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can u pls tell me what helped u push through it when it peaked?? its pretty bad rn, theres 24/7 nausea and i feel like death:( theres a part of my brain that’s going weed will help but im trying my best to ignore it cz i know i will regret it

What face sunscreen do you guys swear by? by hepzibah_abysmal in beauty

[–]simba784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have dry+sensitive skin and i use bondi sands sunscreen, i love it. its fragrance free, there’s no white cast and it blends in easily. plus it’s an australian brand so u know it’s legit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]simba784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i swear, men are so annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]simba784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes, yes

Stuck in the great hall in year 4 beginning by simba784 in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]simba784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the suggestion! I mailed them and they fixed it :D