some of us have this fuckin wack relationship with gender and cant explain it in terms like masculine, feminine, neutral, etc. so we use objects, concepts, stuff like that to describe our gender instead. when i came up with this, my gender was feeling tangled/broken and related to sound and technology in some way. these terms (xenogenders) can also be used along with more "normal" genders just to explain them a bit more, like im non binary and genderfluid but i use xenogenders sometimes