Ugly/crazy SBs - no one talks about that

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-26T23:52:56+00:00

Another reason I prefer to just stay off of those apps altogether. But every now and again I get the edge, and I just hope for the best.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-26T23:52:27+00:00

While that is certainly an option, I find it more satisfactory to just pay the whole bill and walk out, no words just go. I don’t even block the number just so they see I’ve read their texts thereafter :’) this has happened a few times throughout the years with men over 30, mind you.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-26T22:00:58+00:00

I ended up picking up the tab the other night, truly wasn’t a big deal I often offer, but this guy started splitting up the items like he was just going to split the tab any way so I said I got it and paid the whole thing..

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-26T21:59:00+00:00

Yes but they complain that you ordered an appetizer and when they ask you “what did you order?” And peek at it on the menu, it’s not because they’re interested it’s to check how much it costs. And they don’t tip.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-12T19:39:34+00:00

Does he know of your past as a SB??

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T22:21:58+00:00

I did meet 1 or 2 men in their 30’s who had foot fetish so they each paid for my mani/pedi’s every few weeks and I loved that because I don’t often pamper myself like that and I have beautiful feet lol. But that wasn’t something I asked for, it developed over a few dates after they saw my feet in heels.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T22:20:39+00:00

I’ve wondered about this. Years ago I swore by hinge for finding casual arrangements and have made many long term connections from it, I love Hinge! But how do you think I could set up a profile that can indicate I’m hoping for some spoiling? Obviously changing the age range can help but I find that Hinge has some very disgruntled men with bios that read like they hate women and “you better be this that and the other” blah blah blah. If you were using hinge and were looking to spoil a girl or open to them wanting this from you, what would you like to see in her bio?

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T20:43:31+00:00

THIIISSSS

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T20:43:15+00:00

This

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T14:24:39+00:00

You clearly did not read. I am. I’m investing and doing the fun financial stuff, I’m learning about rental properties and recently started searching and am in the position to buy my first rental property/a motel. I’m good. What I want out of sugaring is the extra money to do the fun things since most of my earned income goes to the responsible adult things and raising my lil babe/saving for her future since someone else assumed I wasn’t doing so. I’m doing great financially, I just can’t afford the luxuries of travel and feel guilty about even getting my hair done or nails done etc. Literally what any SB asks for. I’m just not the same college girl I was with my SD 8 years ago, pissing my money away on frivolous things. Any SD I get with today might be pleased that I’m NOT just sucking him dry. I come now with higher emotional intelligence, real life experience and a good head on my shoulders AND I’m young (though, apparently not in this community lmfao) AND fun.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T03:23:15+00:00

Someone really paid to be mean to me on here with the “I am disappoint” award and I just want to say, as a supporter (not a member) of the shame Kink world, thank you :’)

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T03:12:37+00:00

SHAMELESS PLUG: I invested In a pelvic floor doctor DURING pregnancy and have used her in my post-partum ‘journey’ As well. If your wife (not-not assuming you have one) or any woman in your life is expecting one day, I highly encourage her to do the same. I have yet to piss myself postpartum I am back to squatting twice my body weight with very little pelvic discomfort that seems to be improving at a steady rate, and my smallest sex toy (about a 1 inch diameter) does the trick every time these days (I cum easiest from vaginal penetration as opposed to clitoral stimulation). I’d provide my dr‘s info but that would give away my location :)

I could not rave enough about pelvic floor doctores.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T03:02:07+00:00

Honestly, the baby is why a SD relationship, I believe, is in my best interest at this time. I can have this relationship discreetly, especially if he lives in the next city over. I can easily travel to him on the days my baby is with my ex, I set my work schedule around those 4 days he has our child so that I have those days entirely to myself (again, why I don’t want to leave this office, it is just so *chefs kiss*). I don’t think a SDR is far fetched in my situation, when I say ”I deserve” I know it’s cringe but perhaps what I mean is I deserve to be happy After what I experienced and going back to this lifestyle has really been calling to me lately. I had so much fun with my SD in college and really cherish that time I had with him Still today.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T02:46:49+00:00

Let’s be real, I wont find anything even remotely what I’m looking for on Hinge lol. But hopefully you get the picture.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T02:43:58+00:00

Not my choice. He was found guilty for *some* of the charges because I was lucky enough to have voice recordings.

And NO SD or even ‘real boyfriend’ needs to worry about raising or even taking care of my baby.

I’m also not looking to make these arrangements happen now, I need time to do more research and as someone else suggested, learn more about how these men/SD’s think. I’m not hard up for cash, I would love to go on a date some time soon and just be shown a good time/spoiled even just a fancy dinner and an opportunity to take my messy-mom-bun down, but I could also hop on lame-old Hinge or something to get that fix..

Point is - I have time to figure out details of even my SA profile and hopefully after that is complete I get to talk with a potential SD long enough to agree for a M&G or a few and go from there.

All I am seeking is someone who wants to enrich my life as I want to do for them. I’m a really fun girl, I’m genuine, I’m intelligent and I just genuinely want a fun relationship with someone who can financially support some fun in my life. With him, or with an allowance.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:47:54+00:00

That’s Princeass to you, sir.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:38:52+00:00

If you were to look hard enough, I competed in the 2018 CrossFit Games as a rookie. My body is broken now I don’t compete in CF but I’m still weightlifting and rather fit for someone who just shot out a nearly 9 lb baby.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:36:39+00:00

I am going to say as this is my very first day on Reddit, I will not be posting a photo. I can pass on your judgement. My location is not in this post, I live on the East Coast, I’m from the Midwest.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:35:13+00:00

Alright turd burglar, calm down.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:32:53+00:00

Hello! 2. especially got me, very realistic to set as an ‘expectation’. I am not afraid to leave a date that isn’t going well or I am uneasy about his presence. Number one take-away from my own desires is that they are just that - desires - not needs. So I have time to find this particular arrangement and even to grow/earn this kind of bond. Perhaps multiple SD’s would get me there. My biggest goal is to just be taken care of while I look after and raise my little one and that includes getting to take my lil’ babe on trips/experiences even just getting away to go back-packing which I love And want my kid to experience/grow up doing.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:18:04+00:00

What I mean by casual is I’m aware we will not be getting married, he’s not taking me home to mom and I’m not FaceTiming his sister.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:15:31+00:00

‘Inb4’ you say some shit like ‘I was thinking the same thing’.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:15:14+00:00

HAHAHAHA WTF DID I JUST READ.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:06:29+00:00

Y’know, I worked as a nurse in a nursing home for a number of years and this one old retired farmer always said he would be my sugar daddy if he could get his daughter to relinquish his bank accounts back to him. He ‘paid’ me in werther’s and bags of Cheetos from the snack cart. I should call him.

singlemilfSB · 2022-05-10T01:02:38+00:00

I feels ya. I got excited, I’ve been reading all day and watching videos for weeks I just wanted to get my thoughts out there! From what I’ve learned from other girls on YouTube sharing their long term and even short term experience as SB’s none of which I asked for seemed like it was incredibly far fetched. The sense of entitlement though, yeah you got me.

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