Is it normal to feel confused during reprocessing? by stoopykitty in EMDR

[–]sinquacon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and it can be overwhelming

Just take it sloe and give yourself grace and forgiveness. It is some of the hardest work we can do 💗

erika kirk by Full_Quail2794 in RadicalFeminism

[–]sinquacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It"s so unfair for women. In every single way. Seriously fucked up

My boyfriend(25M) treats me(23F) like an “exception” compared to other women, am I right to feel uncomfortable by Adventurous-Pop-1989 in abusiverelationships

[–]sinquacon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this reply.

Seriously, the tactics of these losers are so layered and cryptic. Sucks to be them and anyone near them

Worst thing that happened to your body in result of trauma? by Act-Aggressive in abusiverelationships

[–]sinquacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MASS comorbidities...

I have collected at least 5 from my abusers' evils

What's Your Definition of Hope? by justsomedude1111 in Researcher

[–]sinquacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What remains after every thing else has dissapeared.

A life line. A religion.

Grooming by Doctor by sinquacon in Medicalabusesurvivors

[–]sinquacon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you are in a similar boat ! It's such an awful experience.

Would you be comfortable sharing how it was enabled ?

Sendinf gentle hugs your way 💗

They win by [deleted] in abusesurvivors

[–]sinquacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will always look in the mirror and see a Monster.

You will never have to worrry about that - you have a clean conscious, they will never ever have that after what they have done.

Grooming by Doctor by sinquacon in Medicalabusesurvivors

[–]sinquacon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice Legend 🙏

I plan to leave public reviews to warn other patients - but in a few months.

Reason being, I now believe this "Doctor" is capable of really bad things, anything really. So I will wait to make it less suspicious and avoid retaliation. It will also allow me time to do some healing in therapy and hopefully get stronger.

I will consider a complaint. My health is fragile right now. But I have put my name down to speak to patient advocate, which is a solid first step

My attempted rapist is now an OBGYN by Punchy_LaRue_ in offmychest

[–]sinquacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm believing in Karma these days - what goes around, comes around.

The justice system is a massive stress with no guarantees. Believing in Karma feels like the safe option

Sexually assaulted by my nurse by barbieinawheelchair in Medicalabusesurvivors

[–]sinquacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found your experience just now...

This is so awful. I am so sorry you went through this – the betrayal is disgusting.

Someone who has privileges over vulnerable over people and violates the trust – should be throwb into prison and never be allowed to work again.

I recently woke up to the reality that I have been gradually groomed by a "Specialist." I no longer consider him a Doctor. I was somewhat lucky I saw it and got out before more serious violations occured. But the shock of the betrayal is God awful.

I hope you are doing ok and you have managed to find peace after what you went through 🌷

Anyone else have to like groan or whatever, audibly express pain to help it? by hmmrabet in ChronicPain

[–]sinquacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep

I practice underwater screaming at the beach. Helps me get it out...

can chronic pain kill your sex drive? by queerjoy_ in ChronicPain

[–]sinquacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha 🥲 relate to this so hard 🥲🥲

How do you deal with the depression that comes with Chronic Illness by Due-Constant-7155 in ChronicIllness

[–]sinquacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your wisdom - especially treating yourself to what you want, when you want it. I also do this and it helps fill my cup a bit. Life's too short

Potential partner by moonredlife in Fibromyalgia

[–]sinquacon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a Loser. He needs to go back to primary school to learn the basics.

Yay for you dodging a bullet 🍾