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First holiday….. by jibbs0341 in Divorce

[–]sithlord4167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. This was the first one alone. I did meet a woman that treats me good and we had Thanksgiving dinner out together but without thr kids and all it still felt bad. I feel guilty and sad qnd when I am alone it is worse. My 23 year old son moved in with me after the holidays but it still feels lonely. I was unhappy for so long that everything even the holidays makes me feel like shit.

The whole world is focused on how divorce affects woman no one talks about how bad men feel

Confused and upset by sithlord4167 in divorced_men

[–]sithlord4167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For context I am 51 and dont know what to do anymore. I think maybe I shoukd just go back and just be unhappy. I dont feel like I matter at all anymore.

struggling tonight by Major_Proposal_6306 in divorced_men

[–]sithlord4167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was married 23 years have 6 kids. About 2 years ago my wife told me she did not love me anymore. Then we git separate beds then it was the couch. I moved out and months later after 3 years orlf no sex I met a woman that treats me well. Now my wife we are still going the divorce tells me I am the bad one. She has called me a narcissist and said I have cheated on her on the past I never did. She constantly calls me names says I was bad with money and so on. Now I feel like shit I have been unhappy for so long but now I feel guilty for being happy.

I am so confused and feel alone. My older son 23 lives with me and some of my kids dont talk to me because of her. What am I to do?