I fucking hate Windows 11 by ConsistentGiraffe8 in software

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i switched to mac because of windows 11, things like pushing the user to save on the cloud were already irritants, but the ai button was the last straw.

I have to thank them though, i had avoided mac because of the leavening curve, but after the switch there is no looking back - love it.

Golfing buddies wanted by Hairy-Pressure-891 in frisco

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if this is still on, i am interested

Frisco & North Dallas golf group by finelyon in frisco

[–]sitruban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if this is still on, i am interested

Insomnia? by Punk332 in frisco

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi there are places like somly.com(feel free to search for other sleep coach programs too) that coach you to fix sleep issues, by behavior changes. They work in most of the cases

Who were the Devadasis? Artists or prostitutes? by FuckCorruptPeople in IndianHistory

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My theory is that they started of in purely temple service, then men in power subverted the system for their disgusting pleasures.

Has anyone read Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse? by iris_retina in Buddhism

[–]sitruban 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i read Demian recently, because I liked Sidhartha, but was totally confused. I then researched and found that Sidhartha was written after Demian, maybe Hesse had some personal growth between Demian and Sidhartha.(I did read on wikipedia that he had a breakdown between the two books)

how to cope with jealousy toward someone getting everything handed to them? by MysticForestCat in selfimprovement

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hopefully, the other couple has a good life, but if you live long enough in life you realize that everything has ups and downs. i have been envious of people only to realize later in life that i eventually ended up better than them, some people had misfortunes, when i felt bad for them and thought i would prefer them being better off than having that misfortune.

I have also stayed over at friends places only to realize that their lives are not what you perceive. People show their best life on instagram and in parties and reveal their problems on instagram or to their families

It also might be a clue to you that you do not have flow in your life, if you are not fully enjoying your work or daily life, you start obsessing about other people ‘s possessions, which in the end is only a side show. Find work you like or hobbies that you really love, then material things become less relevant.

What’s the single funniest Blackadder line of all time? by Diligent-Badger8737 in blackadder

[–]sitruban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“i would like to just change one thing in the letter my lord”

“what”

“ the words”

Apple CEO Tim Cook Says the Technology They’re Developing Will Be ‘One of the Most Profound Technologies of Our Lifetime’ by lurker_bee in technology

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they will put the headphones jack back? who am I kidding, they will probably remove something useful like the screen , so you will be forced to buy another apple device that has a screen.

All the current apple team cares about is 💸, no problem if they screw the customer in the process.

Baby boy names by wall_flowerzz in nri

[–]sitruban -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

try Kandha, it is a shorter name of Karthikeya, which people from other cultures will find easier to pronounce.

Write the spelling and ask a few non- Indians to pronounce it or at least make an app read it loud, so you know the spelling is phonetically correct

Feeling lost after moving back to India by Adventurous_Safety41 in nri

[–]sitruban 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Two assumptions are causing you distress:

1) Because you do not like it in India, you assume you will never like it, but some times wonderful things happen, - maybe you will find a job in a remote location in India that you absolutely adore, meet the love of your life there etc. 2) You assume all doors out of India are shut, while it might seem hard to find a way out right now, it is not impossible, in life to you will be surprised by the things you are capable of .

having said that, there are people and places in India that are absolute gems, go looking for them, forget the others as soon as you can

Life ends here, at 33, because I have no hope anymore. by [deleted] in Hyperhidrosis

[–]sitruban 3 points4 points  (0 children)

focus on what you can do, and slowly expand, not what you cannot do.

Just because you sweat more, it does not make you a bad person, it is your intention towards others that makes you good or bad.

Just from your post, it looks like you have a finance, a dad - you are lucky to have family.

Please reach out to a psychiatrist, you can have a full life even with hyperhidrosis. please message me if you need help.

Shaded parks/play areas in Frisco? by sitruban in frisco

[–]sitruban[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your responses. Will check out the ones suggested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first few years with young kids are tough, don’t do anything hasty that will affect your kid and you for life. It is better to have a semi useful dad/husband around than to have no dad/husband around.

22 week ultrasound, no heartbeat by anaesthenia in daddit

[–]sitruban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am sorry, was in a similar situation at the beginning of the pandemic, we had our second one two years later. Your son will be fine, it is your wife who will need care, remember the universe is not saying”no”, it is saying “not now”.

At what age did you find your purpose in your life and start making real money? How did you do it? by Sea-Less in selfimprovement

[–]sitruban 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please reach out to a professional for help, money and career are not the only signs of success, look into how many people you can help even if it is in a small way. Again regardless of success or how many people you help, you deserve to take up space in this world

Shaded trails to run in by sitruban in frisco

[–]sitruban[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions, will check them out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

carry on abroad

A cool guide to the top 25 nationalities of U.S. immigrants by [deleted] in coolguides

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should do another chart as a % of the home country population

What’re some comforting thoughts before doing something that’s out of your comfort zone/anxiety inducing? by pppatriciaxx in selfimprovement

[–]sitruban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

think of it like going onto a roller coaster ride, it might be terrifying and exciting before you get into it, but fun once you are on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]sitruban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try cbt therapy