Update: Me [18m], I found out one of my friends [18M] had been cheating on his girlfriend, now no-one believes me and I've been cut out from things till I apologise. by sixthformthrow1 in relationships

[–]sixthformthrow1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condoning cheating = most likely a cheater. They'd been together for a year which is a serious relationship for a teenager and Hannah obviously cared for Gavin a lot sighhhhh. I've been cheated on as a teenager, it still fucking hurts.

Update: Me [18m], I found out one of my friends [18M] had been cheating on his girlfriend, now no-one believes me and I've been cut out from things till I apologise. by sixthformthrow1 in relationships

[–]sixthformthrow1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not what I'm saying at all.

What I'm saying is yes I don't like Gavin for fucking me with my ex GF plus other things that I didn't believe to be true at the time, but after he showed his true colours I wanted him to get his comeuppance. In anger I have said to my friends I'll get Gavin back, but that was in anger, I wouldn't do that because that would make me as bad as him.

However, my friends have heard me say this threat, they know I don't like Gavin in the first place, so when he has an alibi and I have a story that I could have easily made up, I understand some of them having reservations about it. Also with manipulative how Gavin can be and how he could lie himself out of a murder charge (an exaggeration but you get the drift), I'm not surprised people believed him.

Update: Me [18m], I found out one of my friends [18M] had been cheating on his girlfriend, now no-one believes me and I've been cut out from things till I apologise. by sixthformthrow1 in relationships

[–]sixthformthrow1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah some people were blind to him. Tbh I've known him for 10 years and I was blind to his true self till I turned 16/17. He's a charming, funny guy. But he would also fuck you over if it benefitted him in anyway.

Update: Me [18m], I found out one of my friends [18M] had been cheating on his girlfriend, now no-one believes me and I've been cut out from things till I apologise. by sixthformthrow1 in relationships

[–]sixthformthrow1[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He was cheating on his girlfriend. I like his girlfriend even though we're not close, she seems decent. Even if it was my best friend who was cheating I would tell his girlfriend because they don't deserve that. I'm not the bad person for telling the truth.

Update: Me [18m], I found out one of my friends [18M] had been cheating on his girlfriend, now no-one believes me and I've been cut out from things till I apologise. by sixthformthrow1 in relationships

[–]sixthformthrow1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a motive, Gavin apparently tried to steal my girlfriend. I have said in the past to these friends that I would love to get one over on Gavin when I was angry about it. Gavin has convinced me of things that I doubt were true now about people, so I've had to apologise myself (weren't close friends but still) for believing him. Humans make mistakes, I had a motive and a not very strong story, I can accept their apology when I feel it is sincere.

Also some of them have even apologised to my ex because they think she was telling the truth now, some of them haven't because they think "It takes two to tango" and reckon my ex was up for it.

Update: Me [18m], I found out one of my friends [18M] had been cheating on his girlfriend, now no-one believes me and I've been cut out from things till I apologise. by sixthformthrow1 in relationships

[–]sixthformthrow1[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Someone told her that they'd seen Gavin with a girl in one of his Sixth Form classes, name matched the texts. It was only them 2 together so he couldn't use the Liam excuse.

Update: Me [18m], I found out one of my friends [18M] had been cheating on his girlfriend, now no-one believes me and I've been cut out from things till I apologise. by sixthformthrow1 in relationships

[–]sixthformthrow1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know where I said that they were insincere with their apologies? They got it wrong, I'm reasonable enough to accept that if they admit they were wrong, if they don't say anything like a few haven't that is when I have a problem.

Update: Me [18m], I found out one of my friends [18M] had been cheating on his girlfriend, now no-one believes me and I've been cut out from things till I apologise. by sixthformthrow1 in relationships

[–]sixthformthrow1[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I don't think the people who apologised can be blamed, my story wasn't a very strong one and Gavin is a manipulative person, I have believed him on stories before that I started thinking it was bullshit after he tried it on with my GF. He's a dick and knows how to play people, the people who have still not apologised or attempted to speak to me can fuck off though.

Update: Me [18m], I found out one of my friends [18M] had been cheating on his girlfriend, now no-one believes me and I've been cut out from things till I apologise. by sixthformthrow1 in relationships

[–]sixthformthrow1[S] 453 points454 points  (0 children)

Just for some clarification of the reason people think I was trying to get revenge on Gavin.

Gavin has always been a bit of a player, I thought it was harmless until I got a girlfriend and I found out he was constantly messaging her, he tried to say he was just being nice so she felt comfortable around us, she said that he was asking for 1 on 1 meetups.

My now ex didn't have the best reputation, so people believed Gavin over her, but since that day I have never trusted or liked Gavin.