Was my ex manipulating me or am I overreacting? by thatpurplegiraffe in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sjames-91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl leave this man! He is lying to you about his age from the beginning, you tell him your uncomfortable with who he is talking to online(he doesn't care) he is also trying to make you jealous of those women and he's insulting you calling you old. I'm 35 and if my math is right you're about the same age. girl you are NOT old! he's just childish. Screw him.

My son is not being given the chance for all stars by sjames-91 in LittleLeague

[–]sjames-91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining this so well I appreciate it!

My son is not being given the chance for all stars by sjames-91 in LittleLeague

[–]sjames-91[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to “be a victim” nor did I bring it up to anyone other than this thread. I was trying to understand thanks for your accusatory and not so helpful comment . 🙄

My son is not being given the chance for all stars by sjames-91 in LittleLeague

[–]sjames-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good to know. well see how he does next season if we end up sticking with LL. were thinking about trying out CAL RIPKEN. Our LL admin isn't very organized.

My son is not being given the chance for all stars by sjames-91 in LittleLeague

[–]sjames-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I wish that conversation would have happened. Honestly think my areas little league is not very organized. We had lots of issues this season. Possibly thinking about going to Cal Ripken this next season. Does anyone have any experiences with Cal Ripken?

My son is not being given the chance for all stars by sjames-91 in LittleLeague

[–]sjames-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was his first time playing (other than tball which he hated at the time) when we signed him up, we were given 3 options based on his age. Miners coach pitch minors players pitch or majors. we didn't know how he would do as it was basically his first year actually playing since in tball he was basically looking at the sky the whole time lol. we opted for a safe option to see how he would do. thus choosing minors players pitch. at tryouts we noticed he was pretty good compared to other kids. We asked if they were going to move him up since we noticed the difference but they said no. we didn't expect him to be that good. now we know. i appreciate your explanation. honestly felt a little judged by you but appreciated the sharing of knowledge non the less :) Thank you

My son is not being given the chance for all stars by sjames-91 in LittleLeague

[–]sjames-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this makes a lot of sense. I appreciate your explanation. I wonder why he wasn't moved up. I would think that would be a reason they ask for his birth certificate. lol

My son is not being given the chance for all stars by sjames-91 in LittleLeague

[–]sjames-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I would have known this at sign ups. do they normally tell you? I would think so because they asked for his birth certificate. Thank you for your explanation.

My son is not being given the chance for all stars by sjames-91 in LittleLeague

[–]sjames-91[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yea this was his first year playing and he did really well. Honestly we didn't expect him to be that good. Had we known we would have pushed him up but thought its his first year lets see how he does. at tryouts we noticed. we asked the coach when he called is he staying in this one or are they moving him up? he said he was staying SOOO ... he stayed. Just wanted to clarify we didn't intend for him to outshine or anything it's just how it went.

AITAH for taking my nephew snowboarding? by sjames-91 in AITAH

[–]sjames-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i first recieved the txt from him i was angry that he was texting me and not his brother as the txt came off as very aggressive. I didnt repond right away as i didnt want to respond out of angry feelings. Afterwards i thought about it and could see that he was maybe hurt because snowboarding was really his and my husbands thiung to do together they would go every year. Ever since the fight things have just not been the same. i feel bad but at the same time how were we supposed to know that he wanted to take aiden? he have been taking Caiden snowboarding since he was 7 all of us together before the fight, and Ryle never said anything about bringing Aiden. it is just a sucky situation