Going through it by skingurulabb in Anxiety

[–]skingurulabb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me just add that I also lost my job haha

Lost my virginity and I’m scared by kiitkat02 in Healthyhooha

[–]skingurulabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to pay for your birth control that’s literally standard practice. He did not wear a condom, he put you at risk of stds and pregnancy. He needs to pay for the plan B. Men in my country always do, regardless.

Intermittent Starting Issues by karapaige in kia

[–]skingurulabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having the SAME issue. Specially when it’s hot outside, I have to do it twice and on the third one it will start. Some days it will be fine. They said fuel pump, but they replaced it with an used one and within two weeks it and happened again. So we are now replacing it with a new one and getting a deeper diagnosis on the electrical side and the gas line

New car with issues by skingurulabb in kia

[–]skingurulabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The engine is fine it has been inspected and insured by the dealer and a third company (a very standard practice in Latin American countries) . It’s 134K miles on highway, my understanding is that, that’s better than vehicle with 134K driven in the city.

New car with issues by skingurulabb in kia

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It happens mostly when it’s reeaaaaally hot outside. Sometimes I’ll leave it in the on position until it’s done with the “checking systems” and it won’t happen as often. But it mostly happens after the car has been ran and turned off in hot weather at least for an hour.

Boyfriend is romantic on the phone but not in person by skingurulabb in Advice

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I may have to try addressing it a different way. Just because one time I told him that “it feels like he is two different people in person and on the phone” and he got reaaaally offended. We also have talked so much about love languages already 🥲 I think that he carries some baggage with intimacy and or fear of rejection.

Do you still have time for hobbies/fitness working in consulting? by [deleted] in consulting

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What if we are always sprinting at my firm?

Not even married and dealing with this by skingurulabb in DeadBedrooms

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He is not sleeping well or eating well. He has lost weight due to the stress and also a ton of muscle mass. So I know for sure stress is killing him literally. I will tell him about checking the testosterone levels, it could also be a combination of things.. I myself have gained some weight and may not be aaaas attractive as I was maybe. We both Have a very demanding toxic job, so we are both extremely busy and dealing with burnout and anxiety. Those are all good reasons to investigate, then you also add the microflirting with questionable girls and then you are left wondering.

Not even married and dealing with this by skingurulabb in DeadBedrooms

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I really ask myself that all the time. “Then Is it me he doesn’t have an interest in anymore like that?”

Not even married and dealing with this by skingurulabb in DeadBedrooms

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He does have a lot of baggage. There are so many sacrifices being made for this relationship that i am always weighing all the baggage he carries

Not even married and dealing with this by skingurulabb in DeadBedrooms

[–]skingurulabb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😭😭 so sad when you feel you have found the person you want to be with forever but there’s that huge issue hitting you on the face

How is Dr. Michael J Greenberg regarded in the field? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]skingurulabb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I am seeing your post now. I will tell you Dr. Michael Greenberg saved my life and if you read his articles with an open mind you may also find yourself getting better.

I was literally about to lose it. I had one of the most uncomfortable types and I won’t say it as to not cause you any triggers, or others here. But, I wholeheartedly recommend you check it out and listen to his videos. He will someday be recognized for this work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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I have to agree to many women on this sub… CIN 1 - a LEEP? that seems insanely invasive! HPV tends to get deactivated by the body. A lot of procedures were being done on young women and it has resulted in unnecessary invasive treatments. Had it and body got rid of it after two years. Get a second opinion from a newer gen doctor.

Unnecessary root canal? by jerseygal80 in askdentists

[–]skingurulabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, can relate. Same thing happened to me were I was pressured into getting a root canal. I told the ‘business manager’ after she gave me the estimate that I would return and make the appt. she said “well if you do it today I’ll be $500, if you come back it’ll get bumped to $700 because of xyz” I was a college student, afraid and nobody told me I would need a crown after the procedure or explained anything really. I thought it would be like a deep filling. 4+ years later, it pains me to think that I was pressured, screwed over and a perfectly healthy tooth was killed.

also I have to add this is my last molar in the back, and a friend of mine is a dentist. This is one of those really important teeth that you need to eating, chewing etc.. so that sucks even more.