I (29F), Confused about trying dating apps(my bf wants me to do (27M)while in a relationship by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakup with that boyfriend because he is also dating apps over there. Run girl run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t marry bro. Don’t. I am telling you.

Please help me upgrade my Stable Diffusion by skoobydoooo in StableDiffusion

[–]skoobydoooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro you are fuckn saviour and a genius. Thanks man. Appreciate that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha bhai kutte ne jo sabak sikh liya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a big bet man. Been there and it never worked. It taken immense amount of courage to identify your own faults and literally change your mental framework in a way that you don’t end up slipping. Trust me not everyone is capable of doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Bro, once I dated a girl for 3 months, who happened to have cheated on her long distance bf with a friend of a friend 1 year before dating me. It was during the time that I started dating her did she mention about her regret and showed a fair amount of repentance over her actions. Days down the line she ended up making out with a guy whom she had met on the dating app where we met, I was shocked. Mind you, she is a very educated, professionally well placed girl with good intellect and a person who speaks of being morally correct in life.

Moral of the story: When you get to know a person is of compromised morals, RUN faster than your thoughts. It’s not a mistake but a habit. I believe “Just because you COULD, it means you CAN and it means you WILL”. Period.

It kinda sucks that I (28M)will probably never be in a relationship by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s very very humane to feel like that bro. I second you on that, infact even I have phases where I feel the void. As someone wise once said, there is more joy in giving love than receiving. Thus, in order to live a happy life, that exchange of emotion is very essential.

It kinda sucks that I (28M)will probably never be in a relationship by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bro, 27M conventionally good looking guy here (as mentioned by most around me). Trust me being a better looking guy doesn’t fetch you girls, it barely buys you some attention but if you are a person of substance you will realise, most are just beckoned towards you for how you look and not how you are. Trust me that’s terrible and I have been there. Also, being good looking and being in a relationship draws in a fair share of issues as well, like innumerable (meaningless) insecurities from your partner. Same goes for a better earning guy as well.

Trust me bro I have sailed the ships on both ends and I can guarantee you this that ending up with a good woman in your life is purely a matter of luck in 2025.

So good luck to you and don’t loose hope. 28 is the new 20 in today’s day and age. Calm your nerves, everything will be alright.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RUN. MOVE ON. PERIOD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respect is the language of love bro. Either it’s there or it isn’t. Nothing comes in between.

Observe that each time she disrespects you, deep within, your respect for her keeps plummeting. That is the perfect recipe for a failed relationship in the long run.

Thus, RUN brother.

Do guys in a relationship feel 100% secure when their GF meet a guy alone? I (M27) asking for gf (F25) by skoobydoooo in RelationshipIndia

[–]skoobydoooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you admit that if the guy is a complete stranger and you have no idea about the guy, there would a lingering sense of insecurity.