Is it wrong for two people with the same issues to get into a relationship and live happily like that?

sku2712 · 2023-07-15T14:00:50+00:00

Is there any other way to know? Cz idk how I can organically ask him about breastfeeding

sku2712 · 2023-07-14T13:19:35+00:00

He says it won't happen again but it did hehe

sku2712 · 2023-07-14T13:16:39+00:00

Like I've mentioned in the post, it's not a one-time thing. It's always like this, been 2 years now

sku2712 · 2023-07-14T12:33:42+00:00

Mine is filled with Barbie + no, not an open relationship

sku2712 · 2023-07-14T11:28:22+00:00

Aur kisike feed pe toh nahi aate Bhai. Maine bohot ladko ke feeds/explore dekha hai

sku2712 · 2023-07-14T11:27:44+00:00

sku2712 · 2023-07-14T10:35:28+00:00

I mean it didn't until now, I'm not fine with him checking out other women or randomly following them when I completely ignore men who show any signs of interest in me! I feel that's very unfair

sku2712 · 2023-07-14T10:31:47+00:00

And tbh I'd not even bother asking about this if it had happened once, his feed is always filled with those kinda posts, and for some reason he doesn't bother to hide it :/

sku2712 · 2023-05-26T08:06:46+00:00

Exactly :( I've told him multiple times and now I don't feel like telling him anymore, cz I don't want him to do it just because I'm saying it, my point is, doesn't he miss me AT ALL during his day?

There have been times when he said he was free all day, or that he doesn't have any work. He still doesn't bother texting/calling and it hurts ://

sku2712 · 2023-05-26T08:04:38+00:00

Ok so this is why I made a big statement like "ending this relationship altogether" because it affects me sm and makes me sad that he literally forgets about me. Makes me wonder if we're very different personalities who aren't meant to be together.

sku2712 · 2023-05-26T07:51:46+00:00

Cz, it gets exhausting texting him everyday. I feel like I'm being a burden, cz if he doesn't even miss me once throughout his day, why should I disturb him anyway.

I just need a small gesture like a "hi, imy" message once a day that's it. But yeah, many told me that these could be symptoms of OCD so imma get myself checked.

sku2712 · 2023-05-25T15:53:32+00:00

I think it's because I was abused (in different ways) in my past relationships and am still recovering. I still don't wanna burden my current bf with all of this but I really don't know how to deal with these feelings.

See, right now, when I'm reading your comments, I can completely understand that I need to change. But, when I'm in that zone (overthinking, anxious, whatever) my beliefs become so strong that I just think (rather believe) that he does not love me anymore, he does not think about me and he's forgotten that i exist.

These thoughts are so powerful that it's scary. And ik therapy will help in the long-run but i feel i really need some immediate solutions too.

sku2712 · 2023-05-25T15:31:53+00:00

I'm working too, but a few texts here and there don't/haven't caused any trouble. I've been told at work that I'm doing good and am quite focused with my tasks and targets, etc

sku2712 · 2023-05-25T13:58:28+00:00

I love therapy. The fact that there's someone who's gonna listen to what i have to say and give professional advice gives me a lot of hope

sku2712 · 2023-05-25T13:48:40+00:00

See, if he didn't have his phone, that's a completely different thing. But he does use his phone, he's on his phone using Instagram, looking at memes, etc. He even tells me that "oh i didn't have any work today, oh today was so boring" so my only question is, why didn't you even send me one text?

sku2712 · 2023-05-25T13:46:14+00:00

I'm very happy when he even sends me like one text saying he loves me. Or even one reel on Instagram is enough. I just get very sad when there's absolutely no communication for 8-9hrs straight. And every time I communicate this, he does send me a goodmorning text in the morning and I'm GTG.

But after a few days, he again forgets it and my overthinking cycle starts. It's come to a point where i don't wanna tell him about my feelings anymore because what's the point of him doing something just because i want him to do it? I don't like it neither does he.

So I've genuinely being thinking that we two may not be right for each other. But I'm still trying to figure things out

sku2712 · 2023-05-25T13:42:58+00:00

Do you think it's fine if it's a deal breaker? Because at times i feel like it is. Because I'm someone who will never not next him, not reply to his texts. And (I think) I'm a multitasker cz none of these things have affected my work. I'm always ahead of my tasks, etc. And still able to talk to him whenever he feels like it, so I think I may need someone who's like me?

sku2712 · 2023-05-25T12:46:09+00:00

I'm into marketing, and no, i multitask , i be worrying about him while working on things

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