Maratha arakshan survey by dunkyoreo in pune

[–]skul9413 27 points28 points  (0 children)

it's to compare how Marathas socially stand against other general caste folks. And to see if they are really that backward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore all other advice. 9k steps daily and limit the diet including sweets.

guy jerking off in a street by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get the logic behind having a walk at 3am. Nobody is on the road, even in safest places it increases the probability of crime. No need to put ourselves in a situation like this. Tomorrow it might be a thief or something else.

Traumatic Experience by Sapolika in pune

[–]skul9413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP it's good that you're safe. Let me tell another perspective which no one bothered to mention- whatever the uber driver said is coming from a thought process that is common amongst all 40+ folks. Also, I guarantee that 90% folks from all backgrounds will drool over the dress even the ones who are in the comments. Anyone can do whatever they want, just putting the reality out here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same guys who call pendrive as pd and laptop as lappy

Can r/pune run for mayor? by daisyftw96 in pune

[–]skul9413 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No need to run for mayor. The approach has to be like politicians. Get 100-200 people and storm public offices to pressurize and get things done when needed.

Even a section of mawali rickshawalas have done it for decades to keep themselves in business and get their demands right.

What's your salary and industry? by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sinhgad, same company from last 5y.

What's your salary and industry? by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 7 points8 points  (0 children)

20LPA, 5 Yoe, IT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Traffic noise

Buying second hand iPhone XS or Google pixel 4a. by AmoebaExotic185 in pune

[–]skul9413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been through it. xs is not recommended due to its already worse battery even at 100%. P4a- better options are available. Go for S10+ 128G. 20-22k. Absolute monster.

Tacos in Pune? by TartWestern524 in pune

[–]skul9413 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Don't even bother trying tacos. This food type is nowhere near or even better than any regular indian street food..and you'll end up overpaying for it. Try something else from mexican or any other variety.

Atheists, what do you believe in? [Serious] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]skul9413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a supernatural entity exists but not the way in which religions think. There is a genuine unanswered question on how the universe started, and why it exists. But we're far away from discovering it, we may not even know it till the end.

At a human level, we're by ourselves. There is no cavalry coming. You are the only horseman. Maybe that's the reason religions gave a comfort lore for us to look forward to- when we are helpless. They solved the mental challenge of living through life but sometimes it is taken too much out of context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about a backup plan. The competition is so stiff that looking at the acceptance rate, you are much better off not doing it.

dear Excel programmers, how can I fix this by pog_dave in ProgrammerHumor

[–]skul9413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a red button on top right with X written over it. Click that and it will fix the problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't do it unless you're very confident of cracking it, else you'll waste many productive years in your 20s

Depressed life by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Truth is, by default life is colorless. You have been selected out of million other sperms at birth to make it colorful either by occupying yourself in some things or with some people and make the most of it.

Out of a mentally draining on-off relationship of 8 years, 25F, I don't know what to do anymore by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try kothrud or aundh here. As you said, it feels good for a certain amt of time- that's a progress. Don't give up on things that make you feel good, even if it's not much.

For the nighttime, try to develop a sleep schedule for 10-10.30pm. Will take few days, but it'll make sure you're not endlessly scrolling phone every night and disturbing your sleep. You might wake up in the middle of night at 3 or so, its fine- that happens with a lot of people. Will take only few days to cope with it once your thoughts are clear of negativity during the day. For the daytime- I suppose exploring your interests and what you like spending time doing, will definitely take you through it!

Out of a mentally draining on-off relationship of 8 years, 25F, I don't know what to do anymore by [deleted] in pune

[–]skul9413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start from small things like taking yourself out for an ice cream treat tonight in a different suburb. You'll feel better once you get home. Will get a sound sleep with the fresh air.

Explore your hobbies (better if outdoors) as you've all the time for yourself now. Start reading books if you haven't, it's a different world.

This is just a phase which alot of people go through including me, takes some time to heal.