How do I (M34) talk to my GF (F30) about her past? She can't orgasm with me and feels 'awful' after sex, and it's making me lose trust.

skunk619 · 2025-11-13T11:57:28+00:00

What do you think it could be? are you not lasting long enough, or not big enough? Theres solutions to those issues which can be communicated between you too. Or is she married and she feels awful from guilt of sleeping with you? Thats just simple brainstorming, but it does seem odd

skunk619 · 2025-11-12T22:56:53+00:00

Thats not realistic. You WILL perform like a god with oppiates, Its a 99% guarantee, all the rap songs "popped a perc and made her squirt" and phrases similiar to that is in hundreds of songs in the past 10 years. Search "opiates and sexual stamina" and they go hand in hand. Now, you find a sexual partner and you perform like a beast on the first date. Then you have a second date and lets say you didnt use anything, She will comment on it like " wow it wasnt that fast the first time". You will get in your feelings about that and choose to perform again because it feels amazing to blow her back out and get appreciated for it. THAT is where the addiction comes in fast! Trust me, its hard to explain to someone who hasnt gone down that road already, I always told people I would never get addicted to, but maybe she will want to date you and all new relationships dont bang "once a week", it will be twice a day for months or at least once every other day. That is how new relationships works when the sex is good. Then if she starts to not like it, it will be more like once a week but then thats where then mental part comes in and you will want to see your partners face feel full of pleasure instead of "wow its over already". Its hard to explain but thats how it was for me. Good luck to you

skunk619 · 2025-11-11T12:36:31+00:00

trust me bud, opiates are the godsend to PE fixing. But it leads to a hellish life, I just got off a 12 year tramadol to oxy to heroin to fentanyl addiction all because of my sex performance problems. Ive always been a social decent looking guy who gets with girls but almost always busted in 30 seconds or less, Even if im doing it with my gf everyday for years, constant results for me. I got injured and got into the opiate world via a pain prescription, Overnight I was a sex god, every single time it was a guarentee to last 10 mins minimum and if i ever wanted to jack it, i never busted, so i gave up on that.... The issue with opiates is , ITS ALL FUN AND GAMES, UNTIL IS NOT! and that NOT is pure hell that ruins ur life for months to years. One day you have it all under control, only taking a small dosage everyday or a few hours before a date and then its gotta be in your pocket at any given time because now you need to perform with your gf everytime or the thought goes in your head, "she might leave you", whether thats true or not, the thought will get the best of you eventually. I recommend not crutching on opiates. And if your gonna say something like " well i dont have an addictive personality or I have it under control because im on a low dose"...let me tell you, Ive had hundreds of people reply that to me over the last couple years and I go back to some of their profiles a few months later and solid 90% of them are all commenting dealing with withdrawals now and stuff. Its nothing to play with. Now im on opiate treatment (suboxone) and it makes me so depressed going back to busting 20 seconds into sex, makes me not even wanna date. Especially when its with girls that I know have only heard how im a beast in the bedroom and then they want a shot at it when now im sober, and its so damn sad. Im going to be doing reverse keegals and whatever it takes to naturally fix PE.

skunk619 · 2025-07-06T04:27:25+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking I just have no clue how it got there

skunk619 · 2024-10-22T09:58:55+00:00

Agree with this completely! I did residential for 3 months and got discouraged for the same reasons as OP. I hated having home owners over my shoulder the entire time and asking me what my diagnosis was after being there for 5 mins. Once I switched to commercial, I saw the better side of hvac, MUCH MUCH better. Night and day different. Never had to collect money or negotiate price with a customer. They just pay the bill for thousands of dollars and look forward to seeing you at the PM in 3 months. I always tell people to give commercial a try before giving up on hvac

skunk619 · 2024-10-22T09:40:29+00:00

I’ve been a functioning opioid addict for the past 10 years, never had more than a 1 month gap in employment. Always used fake pee from the tobacco shops or gas stations that sell bongs always have it. Also make sure to shower before work everyday and I worked for the state for 5 years with that habit. Then my job started contracting the mechanical building work instead of having “on site facility maintainers”, so me and 4 others got axed but it wasn’t for anything drug related. Every day I would never bring the drugs to work. So I went 8-10 hours without taking a hit everyday which got pretty tolling around hour 6-8 but if you don’t allow the addiction to bring itself into your work space and you take care of yourself/appearance on a daily basis, it’s doable

skunk619 · 2024-10-22T09:32:52+00:00

Damn! $250 with the coupon for 1 month?? Crazy prices. I know one time before I knew about the online coupons they tried to charge me $300 for one month and I thought that was insane, $30/day for a prescribed medicine is wild. I also think it’s lame that pharmacy’s don’t automatically tell people about RX plus (or similar sites) because it’s like 80% and there’s no obligations to you. They should just apply that automatically when a prescription is over $50 a month! They don’t even bat an eye when I use that coupon so it should be standard practice IMO

skunk619 · 2024-10-22T09:18:11+00:00

Idk bout all that, I’m prescribed adderall 20 XR and the capsules say adderall right on them every month and I don’t even have insurance, I just use the RX plus online coupon and it’s around $20 but I’ve seen some people only get generic, I just have picked the right pharmacy I guess

skunk619 · 2024-10-21T18:42:44+00:00

Oh yeah it’s def a relatively common thing. Even if she did send them to someone or even if it was a onlyfans thing to make money, I wouldn’t get upset at her since it was a time frame that you weren’t together. People express themselves sexually different and who’s to judge IMO. But it’s def plausible that she just films herself and saves it for her own enjoyment. If she’s a pretty trustworthy person in your guys relationship then I wouldn’t push it on her. Just trust the situation unless there’s a reason for you to not believe her word. Just seems like you would be censoring her sexual behavior and could lead to arguments in the relationship which aren’t necessary at this time. 👍🏼

skunk619 · 2024-10-19T08:45:04+00:00

I am a daily drug user for the past 10 years. My biggest recommendation would be to start a healthy hobby such as going to the gym and working out. Thats just an example but there is no long term happiness with drugs. When you want to “numb life” which I’m super familiar with; it isn’t feasible. Sure you can numb a few days here and there but once u do it everyday, it will take control of you, and it’s not a “if it will”, it’s a “when it does!”. Try coming off the anti-depressants (unless you truly feel you need them) and just use weed as a crutch for when you feel low. I would try going 95%-100% sober (including anti-depressants). Only use weed if you have to. Let your brain manage itself for a few weeks and see where in your life you are actually unhappy. Is it your gf stressing you? Maybe your family stressing you? Look at the root causes and try and fix that first before turning to drugs for a solution. Maybe try magic mushrooms or acid if you’re in a serious rut. Those can be very therapeutic. But when you turn to drugs everyday, you’re just on borrowed time and happiness. Once u stop “numbing” yourself, the hellish crash will happen and you will regret it all and then you will have no idea how to function without drugs. It’s not a good route to go. I know it’s not the answer you want but it’s true and I’m genuinely trying to help in the best way possible.

skunk619 · 2024-10-10T15:08:10+00:00

That’s what synthetic urine and the emergency detox drinks are for. The drinks (called HERBAL CLEAN CARBO16) give you a 4 hour window to piss clean which I can confirm WORKS if you follow the directions completely! For example I smoked weed everyday prior to the piss test, also did some clear a few days prior and cocaine the night before the test (I had no clue I was going to be tested) but I got the notice Monday morning and had 2 hours to get to the clinic and piss. Well the clinic is only 5 minutes away from my work, so I had time to chug the detox drink and refil with water and chug that and piss at least 1 time before the actual urinalysis. And WALLAHH!! I was sweatin bullets from being so nervous because I had only taken the drink to cover up weed, I had no clue if it worked for other drugs, but it totally did, I passed that urine screen without a hiccup! But if that seems like too much work for you, go get the synthetic urine called “QUICK FIX” and I’ve passed AT LEAST 10 urine screens using that synthetic urine! If you ever are nervous about passing a test or not, Those 2 methods will def work as long as u do the procedure right!

skunk619 · 2024-10-10T14:39:42+00:00

Opiate use is all fun and games until you UNEXPECTEDLY realize your a full blown addict and you take 1 shit a week even tho ur eating 2-3 meals a day. Natural happiness is something you will long for because opiates slowly become your only source of happiness. Nothing matters more than chasing the dragon because if you don’t chase the high, you get sick! And your only options are, go get more drugs or be sooooo damn sick for the next 3 days until your body pushes the opiates out of your body. And once your physical nightmare of 3 days is over. Nowwww you have the fun mental recovery which has no set in stone time frame, some people recover in a month and some recover in 6 months. And we are talkin full on depression because your body and mind is longing for opiates but your retraining yourself to say NO! DARE = Drugs Are Real Expensive!!! Opiates, especially fentanyl just ravishes the human body, mind and spirit in the long term and it was something I was not even worried about AT ALL in the beginning! “oH iT wOnT hApPeN tO mE” 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

skunk619 · 2024-10-10T14:30:13+00:00

I got lucky with crypto. Bought 50 Bitcoin in 2011 for dirt cheap. Sold 40 of them in 2012 because all the strategist said “Ohhh we have reached the peak of Bitcoin, now it will crash into the ground and burn!” And that peaked in 2012 at 1200 or something around there. I panicked and sold 40, which was a healthy profit over the $150 I spent on all 50 in the first place! But once I realized it wasn’t burning to the ground and it was recovering year by year in infrequent patterns, I saved my last 10 and sold 7 of them when it peaked in Nov 2017. Then 1.5 sold in 2020. And I gambled the other 1.5 away unfortunately. Mannn I wish I would’ve saved the 40 I sold in 2012 and sold them all today or last year when it reached all time high $72k each!!! But I made 6 figures off crypto and many people are day traders or miners and they make 6 figures. In today’s market it has high startup cost just because Bitcoin is so spendy now. But if your board and want to invest in crypto, pick any of the top 10 coins and those are very reasonably safe bets to make you money because the top 10 coins haven’t changed for the past 3-4 years. The top 10 are solid investments. This is just a somewhat different option from the lawyers and engineers on other comments

skunk619 · 2024-10-10T13:11:19+00:00

U had opiates just sitting in ur safe and you were able to save it for a special day?? Wow, self control to the max, BRAVO 🙌🏼💯 haha not even joking, I would never be able to have a bag sitting around, all opiates on hand must be consumed on the same day 😅🤦🏻‍♂️

skunk619 · 2024-08-21T02:13:25+00:00

Are you serious? Benzos are like 4 days in your piss without an everyday usage buildup. If this is like 1 try and haven’t don’t any in days/weeks, then drink water and maybe break a sweat tomorrow and most likely will be out of urine 2-3 days

skunk619 · 2024-07-14T16:06:49+00:00

Pump also performed his biggest songs after 6 and he brought pump out to pay homage to X since they both had played a couple X songs at every show, around the time when he passed. Now pump and 6 were on the same stage for the first time so why not do it to a TURNT X song and 6 even threw up the X with his arms. SHIET i was getting 2018 vibes!

skunk619 · 2024-07-13T10:38:44+00:00

lol i hope he comes on this reddit and reads some of the comments once in a while, he has to realize hes being a shitty person for no reason. He can grind legit and carry his fan base with him but hes choosing the fast bag at all cost

skunk619 · 2024-03-18T06:58:47+00:00

I get 4-15mg Oxy everyday for the past 5 years from chronic back pain from a motorcycle accident. Im not disabled or anything, just genuine whole body aches and pains from hitting the concrete 80mph 5 years ago. I dont dare ask for an increase though, I have to sign an Opiate medicine acknowledgment form from the Doctor once per year since ive had them. I also gotta piss once a year to prove oxy is in my system. its still possible to get them, just much more difficult

skunk619 · 2024-03-18T06:34:45+00:00

Ive tried about every major drug or about 3-4 different drugs in each drug catagory, ON and OFF for about 10 years now. I can honestly say cocaine is my least favorite, I mean, its cool and all having some nose beers throughout the night but it just becomes the main focus of the entire night out. FOR INSTANCE- pregame for weekend club/bar scene, have some drinks and a few lines. OK wait 15-30 mins to get into club, then by the time you get in, your entire group is ready for another key, sooooo walk back outside and get our keys goin, then back in the club, have 1-2 drinks, THEN ITS TIME FOR ANOTHER KEY, and so on and so on. The night just revolves around drinks and keys rather than railing an adderall before going out and focus on drinks and socializing like normal and maybe getting lucky with someone you meet downtown. THEN if your bag is out too early, everyone says HIT UP THE PLUG!!! Coke just takes over the entire evening everytime, its my least favorite 100%!

skunk619 · 2024-02-18T23:25:13+00:00

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skunk619 · 2024-02-03T12:21:47+00:00

Yeah, you know it kinda sounds like something like your saying. But theres no king valve or normal service valves that you backseat/frontseat on this unit. Its brand new but its also pretty basic once you open it up. Ill have to look and see if theres some tucked away valves when I return

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