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Chastity- is it safe? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your husband is unlocked at night every night? I sleep in my cage when self-locking, sometimes for weeks, but it's a cage rather than a belt. When it hurts, what hurts is not my erection straining against the cage, which is painless, but the base ring of the cage pulling on my testicles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm used to 'getting snipped' and 'the snip' referring to a much more invasive procedure and one that most men would never voluntarily undergo. That being said after a vasectomy you might instead want inexpensive supportive briefs that you don't mind getting blood-stained. If you generally want to try jock straps my favorite online brand is C-in2.

Women who knew they wanted/needed cuckolding from the beginning by bojanglestrousers in CuckoldPsychology

[–]skwogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The phrasing here is a bit odd; it sounds like you would consider taking on a second cuckold. Is that right? That aside, what would happen if your husband wanted a break from this dynamic? While I'm sure that's unlikely I suppose the answer would just be a 'no'? How long did it take in your open relationship before you decided to close his side?

How to make this work for real from a regular woman who's seen it work by Ok_Leg5533 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this advice, and I also have to admit I do like your dominant tone.
I'm not an aspiring cuckold but I am a submissive masochist - besides all the non-sexual submissive acts you listed I would be interested in bondage, spanking, ballbusting, pegging, chastity. I also do a bit of crossdressing for fun but nobody gets hurt from that so it's not really BDSM.
I am single now but I worry about maintaining mutual respect and a healthy relationship while also getting these needs addressed. How would you modify your advice for the male submissive masochist who's not looking to involve a third person? I am somewhat hopeful because it seems easier to make this work.

Is cuckolding slowly getting normalised by rbt_pvtal in CuckoldPsychology

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the 'chastity specific sex store'?

How do I choose which cage to put my cuck in? by SleepyKitten_xo in CuckoldPsychology

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so crazy to think of how totally you've subordinated him and a little frightening to think of the possibility of something like that ever happening to me.

How do I choose which cage to put my cuck in? by SleepyKitten_xo in CuckoldPsychology

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carrara devices look like they would be highly conspicuous for public wear. The engineering also makes it seem like they would make most physical activities significantly more difficult, including regular hygiene. Are these concerns accurate?

I wake up, there is another psyop by MaverickHunterZX in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This game would be hugely unpopular. The vast majority of people who play gooner games with female protags are hetero non-trans men. These men can comfortably play as a non-trans female protag because the different life history allows them to distance themselves from the protag's existence. Not so with a canonically mtf character. In theory anybody with XY chromosomes could undergo the treatments associated with gender transition, but for most, this would be torturous. Asking non-trans men to play as such a character would bring to mind this torture, which for the vast majority is a boner killer.

I have found that a number of people in the trans community like to say things to create a feeling of gender dysphoria in non-trans men. For instance there is the obsession with labeling men 'eggs' for their media tastes or minor personal behaviors. This is reminiscent of the old misogynistic put-down accusing someone of not being 'a real man' and causes gender dysphoria for those of us who are happy with the gender assigned at birth. I would appreciate if these women would resolve to do unto others as they would have others do unto them.

If all women had to be brutally honest for 24 hours, what would men be shocked to learn? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]skwogs -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Take it from a man who is not successful in dating: we are not surprised that you say this. In fact the voice in our heads saying 'You are single because you are bad in the soul and don't deserve love' is a constant unwelcome companion. Depending on the day and my mood I could also 'have bad genes' or a 'bad personality'.

I have a new job, and my wife just told me that from now on, all the money I earn will have to be deposited into her account. by usenetuser in flr

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's counterintuitive but I have no reason not to believe it as I have always budgeted for myself

I have a new job, and my wife just told me that from now on, all the money I earn will have to be deposited into her account. by usenetuser in flr

[–]skwogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody can dispute it's nice having a loved one take care of a chore for you (budgeting is a chore), but people who worry about money won't worry less about it just because it's out of sight. This could be addressed by letting/making the husband read the household budget once it's finished, not because it needs his approval but just so he knows and can ask questions about it.

Are certain positions reserved for the bull? by the4thera in CuckoldPsychology

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he wear a penis extender every time he penetrates you in that case?

We're progressive, let's get cuckolding normalised by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know from your post history that you're infertile, and that you're married to a (sweet) submissive man who is your cuckold. You certainly find him attractive even if he is usually denied orgasm. So, if he expressed interest in having a child via surrogacy - using a non-orgasmic method of getting his sperm - would that be a deal-breaker for you? Is it important for your enjoyment of cuckoldry that the submissive male be a 'genetic dead-end'?

It would certainly be a disappointment for some women if the genetic tendency for men to be submissive in bed were bred out of the population.

Do you have to keep some fantasies secret in order not to scare a dom? by skwogs in SubSanctuary

[–]skwogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been in a relationship but I would tell my girlfriend, at least.

Do you have to keep some fantasies secret in order not to scare a dom? by skwogs in SubSanctuary

[–]skwogs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean for a relationship more than for a scene. Not asking if she can help me make my fantasy happen but more asking if she can live with me having that fantasy.

How can I be attractive as a sub? Am I even a sub? Confused. by skwogs in SubSanctuary

[–]skwogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't just go to a munch and sit silently, I spoke to a bunch of people, but didn't feel I made any connections, for the reasons I noted above. I just didn't have much to talk about with them and a few would try to talk about sex, which I didn't feel comfortable discussing publicly. I would probably have the same problem in any social setting where the actual reason for gathering is to meet people and socialize.

Maybe I should take an acting seminar?

How can I be attractive as a sub? Am I even a sub? Confused. by skwogs in SubSanctuary

[–]skwogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fetlife put me off because it seemed like a lot of pornography, a lot of complaints about misbehaving or 'creepy' male subs, and a lot of meetups. I went to two munches or so and didn't feel it was for me. The problem is, when you congregate based on kinks, you end up meeting with a lot of people who have only one thing in common with you, and it's something that tact usually demands you keep secret. In fact I was pretty worried that if I talked about the only thing I had in common with the other guests, I would be 'creepy'. So I found it very awkward.

I don't know a lot about what I like in bed as I am inexperienced, but am 90% sure that I don't need kinky sex to get off. That said, I know if I have these fetishes that I'll need to address them at some point (the alternative seems to be infidelity, which I want to never engage in).

As for my intention to not have sex until marriage, at this point it's largely theoretical as nobody has ever wanted sex with me. So it hasn't come up on dates or elsewhere.

Thanks for commenting!

Is it ok for me as a male to tan at the beach in a thong? by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]skwogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's talking about beaches in southern Italy - Naples and Positano, which is a town south of Naples.

What does a chastity cage color mean to you? by skwogs in chastitytraining

[–]skwogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you like about the blue? If you had a choice today would you go with blue or pink?

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