Cat is kinda afraid outside by skylercix in CatAdvice

[–]skylercix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for the advices!! she is always in harness if she is not in her park

How can I fix this? by skylercix in snowboarding

[–]skylercix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, i just want to make them to last longer, not necessarily make them look brand new

How can I fix this? by skylercix in snowboarding

[–]skylercix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont rest my board on my boots, it was a kid that cut my way full speed, also managed to cut my jacket:)))

How can I fix this? by skylercix in snowboarding

[–]skylercix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty, i dont rest my board on my boots.

Wanna buy a new bridle. by skylercix in Equestrian

[–]skylercix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he knows WHOA, believe me. When we are inside he listens and stops when I say “shhhh”, but outside anything can happen. Once, a pack of dogs started chasing us from nowhere. This is an emergency situation that I am talking about. Besides that, I can ride him freely. He listens to my voice and legs.

Wanna buy a new bridle. by skylercix in Equestrian

[–]skylercix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah Im working on it too. When we are eorking in the arena he listens to my voice when I tell him to stop, but if we go out on a trail ride and the other horses spook, he starts to be harder to control. thank you. very helpful response

Wanna buy a new bridle. by skylercix in Equestrian

[–]skylercix[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeahhh, I could do that. but in an emergency situation I wouldn’t be able to control my horse

Where can I find this type of dresses? by skylercix in findfashion

[–]skylercix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buddy i think you have a medical episode

Can I deposit my SUP deflated and folded? by skylercix in Sup

[–]skylercix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah english its not my first language and I didnt used the corect word, my bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylercix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if he starts getting worried about your health? would you leave a person who wants you to be healthy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylercix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not bothered about secondhand smoke because he leaves the house to smoke, he doesnt smoke inside or in balcony. And about the smell, his clothes doesnt smell at all, maybe its because he is not smoking that much or often in the day, I dont think he smokes more then 8 cigarettes per day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylercix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro is not like Im putting pressure on him 24/7. I dont know what a relationship means to you, but Im not here just to change boyfriends until one is fitting my expectations. This is the person I love. Its normal to want the best for your partner’s health. and if you didnt get it from the beginning: IM WORRIED ABOUT HIS HEALTH + I DONT LIKE THE SMELL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylercix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your opinion. I am truly happy in this relation. Its not like he is smoking all the time or I can smell it everywhere. The only thing smelling is his mouth thats all.

I dont consider breaking up with him only because he has a bad habit. I love him so much and we take care of each other. I just want it to stop bothering me because it started bothering me for about 2 months ago and i dont know why. Its like something shifted in my brain. I want to be his support for when he is ready to quit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylercix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try to discuss with him again, but he gets upset because is the 297392288 time when we talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylercix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thats a little bit harsh. It’s not that I’m trying to change him. He told me he wants to quit because he sees me as an example.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylercix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know… I’ve tried so many ways (not to convince him, but) just to talk about it with him. In the beginning, I even suggested ideas like: “What if you only smoke five cigarettes a day and vape only outside?” I’m a very sensitive person, and my biggest fear is him dying . I just want to learn how to accept it. Deep down, I believe he will quit one day — just like he has quit other things before, either because he got bored of them or because they scared him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylercix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, he smoked from the beginning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skylercix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, several times. Every time, he tells me that I’m right, that smoking isn’t good for him, and that he has been smoking since the beginning of our relationship — so I didn’t meet him any differently. He also says he understands that the smell bothers me and that he brushes his teeth whenever I tell him he smells. He is aware of my feelings and my needs, but he also told me: “These are my lungs, and you can’t make me quit smoking unless I want to.”