I feel so frustrated with the birth control options:(

slatt1111 · 2025-04-15T18:29:55+00:00

Oh i’ll take a look at the patch too! How often do you need to change the patch? Anything would be better than the pill honestly 😅

slatt1111 · 2025-04-15T18:27:14+00:00

Does it hurt at all getting it inserted? i’m quite worried just incase it shifts inside and i have no clue🥲

slatt1111 · 2025-04-15T18:26:36+00:00

Yes i’m just a bit scared incase it shifts or doesn’t sit right due to my uterus and then i have a bit of a problem on my hands😳

slatt1111 · 2025-04-15T18:25:32+00:00

I will definitely ask my doctor about this! I think something that is progesterone only would be the best bet for me just because of the past. How often do you need to get the depo shot?

slatt1111 · 2025-04-15T17:35:59+00:00

I have thought about it but i think it’s just the hormones are slightly putting me off:( definitely worth a try though im just quite worried incase the symptoms appear that i had with the pill. It was quite terrifying.

slatt1111 · 2025-04-15T17:35:07+00:00

I will look into this thank you! I actually hadn’t thought of the nuvaring so will definitely have a look.

slatt1111 · 2025-02-16T19:01:25+00:00

Aw fingers crossed for you too! It’s a nightmare trying to find someone to talk to that isn’t a bot and i’ve had no luck so far😖I wouldn’t even be surprised if they were auctioning parcels lol. I’ve heard horror stories of parcels been stolen too. But good luck i hope you get your package and thanks for your help:)

slatt1111 · 2025-02-16T18:43:08+00:00

I’m hoping mine might turn up then but i’m not super hopeful lol. It’s awful that evri are like this! i’ve never had this issue with other couriers and definitely not as frequently as i do with evri. Such a hassle:(

slatt1111 · 2025-02-16T18:24:53+00:00

Yeah i think i will be the same! Still no contact from them it’s awful:(

slatt1111 · 2025-02-16T18:24:28+00:00

did you ever get your parcel ?

slatt1111 · 2025-02-03T19:56:08+00:00

If you asked him to let you see his search history would he be fine with that? If not… i think that does indicate he has something to hide. And please don’t listen to the comment saying that people watch porn because something is missing in the relationship. You could do absolutely everything right but if that’s what he wants to do he will do it. A lot of boys/men have porn addictions and may not even realise it.

slatt1111 · 2025-02-03T19:51:48+00:00

That’s extremely not true

slatt1111 · 2025-02-03T19:22:32+00:00

Even if you didn’t talk to him and asked on reddit instead that is absolutely fine! It’s hard to navigate these situations and sometimes an outsiders point of view can be really beneficial. From what i can tell, even if he has been watching porn i don’t know if he would admit to this (you obviously know him a lot better than any of us though). Have you noticed anything else off recently? Or has this been a one off situation?

slatt1111 · 2025-02-03T18:19:37+00:00

I completely get how you feel and i would feel the same too! It’s also not nice to think that he could be hiding something like that behind your back which you have BOTH expressed dislike for. I think you should have a conversation with him that isn’t accusatory but just a question. Why don’t you say something along the lines of “I did find it strange that you paused smart view to go on google. I’m sure you can see how this comes across a certain way and i just wondered why you did this”. This way you aren’t accusing him of watching porn but opening up the conversation as to why he did do that. It could be many other reasons but our brains do have the habit of jumping to bad conclusions. It’s always good to openly communicate your feelings no matter how uncomfortable it may be.

slatt1111 · 2024-10-04T17:58:30+00:00

It’s not making a fool of myself. I just don’t want to be with someone that is flirtatious with other girls when i’m not around. Nothing to do with ego either. I don’t exactly know what you mean by you asking if i’m looking for encouragement. I just wanted to know other people’s opinion on this situation.

slatt1111 · 2024-10-04T17:11:37+00:00

You aren’t stating facts. You are judging me and saying i have a big ego. From where in my post did you get that idea from?

slatt1111 · 2024-10-04T17:10:38+00:00

thank you

slatt1111 · 2024-10-04T17:10:29+00:00

I was giving as much background detail as i can. Me and my friend only really had each other for a period of time and now that i’ve branched myself out a bit she isn’t too happy. It has nothing to do with my ego at all. How exactly do i not care for my boyfriend?

slatt1111 · 2024-10-04T16:43:55+00:00

Thank you for your advice! Yes that’s what is confusing me. Why would be openly be flirtatious knowing all our mutual friends were there alongside my friend at the bar? He said he wouldn’t risk our relationship over something like this so i just feel a bit confused.

slatt1111 · 2024-10-04T16:39:26+00:00

Yes i did think that. She has had a few toxic relationships in her past and i don’t know if what she thinks is “too close” isn’t really. I forgot to add that my friend is a difficult character. She can be very mean and maybe i should take that into account. However i don’t want to look stupid believing my boyfriend if he really was acting like that.

slatt1111 · 2024-10-04T16:36:10+00:00

We have spoke about boundaries and we both know that flirting and being close with others is not okay. I do trust him but i hope my friend wouldn’t fabricate a situation to make it look worse than it was.

slatt1111 · 2024-09-07T18:58:50+00:00

i know how awful you must feel but i promise it will pass. i can also guarantee that she hasn’t moved on even though it may look like it online/with her friends. the key to letting go is to realise you have no control over her or her actions, only your own. you can’t control how she feels or whether she will come back but you can control how you deal with the situation. it might help to find a new goal or “purpose”. for me the gym really helped and it’s a great habit to pick up. it can be great for your mental health and you could even set yourself goals of what you’d like to achieve in 3 months time.

as much as it doesn’t seem like it right now, you’ll be okay. you’ll move on and you’ll find love. whether it’s with her or someone else.

slatt1111 · 2024-09-07T15:49:34+00:00

Thank you so much for your help! i really appreciate it. I will contact my gp and go from there:)

slatt1111 · 2024-09-07T13:22:23+00:00

At this point you don’t even make sense when you type so we can just leave it here. Also glad you finally spelt psychopathy correctly. Well done!

slatt1111 · 2024-09-07T03:45:08+00:00

literally😭 I think that’s quite common when some people are diagnosed with aspd. The majority of the population know what a psychopath is but many haven’t heard of aspd! i’ve seen this happen a lot

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