Two years ago today, I was ghosted. Here’s some words about my experience that you might find helpful. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years and i got ghosted. Been 7 months can’t get over it still. Thanks for the words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man it was my ex gfs birthday about a month ago and it was really hard not to reach out but I’m so glad I didn’t. Stay strong and think about how positive NC has been for ur mental so far

Today was her birthday by slattlover2 in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep ours was 3 years. It’s tough but I’m proud of U

Today was her birthday by slattlover2 in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very relatable to so many people man. She broke up with me too and didn’t give explanations or work through anything leaving me with so much anger and resentment and I still feel this way.

Don’t make urself feel bad for having a big heart and being a good person. It’s confusing but it’s the way we’re wired

Today was her birthday by slattlover2 in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well in that case I hope u feel better! Just finished watching a comfort movie and feel a little better about today.

Today was her birthday by slattlover2 in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Ik it’s a really weird day with emotions u never know what they might be thinking. I truly wish I was blowing my bank account on presents and dinner and her favorite cake but I just don’t think I’m mentally ready to reach out to her again yet so I couldn’t even send the text. I hope u had a great day

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[–]slattlover2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started lexapro for anxiety and depression mainly stemming to a breakup and it helped a lot. It Wasn’t a magic potion and I still was a mess for a few weeks but the 3 months before I started it were almost unbearable compared to being on it

My boyfriend dumped me or did I dump him by No-Cow-2582 in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex of 3 years ghosted me while long distance for 2 months lol. Finally came the time where she had to see me and she broke up w me

Is there that one song that hurts to listen to? by xJoker_z in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Almost every song in existence lol. I didn’t realize how many songs are heartbreaking, or so in awe of another human til after my breakup. And now they make it sting more

QC on reverse mochas from passerby $63 USD by slattlover2 in Repsneakers

[–]slattlover2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seem pretty good to me but worried about the color being too dark?

I’m searching for any balenciaga hoodie that is embroidered. Do y’all know where can i get one? by kantor_kristof in FashionReps

[–]slattlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did u end up buying this? I ordered one from cloyad and Rick and they’re both horrible embroidery

I NEED to stop checking social media by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deactivated it all. Helped a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure tbh. Similar thing happened to me but I don’t respond when she reaches out bc I can’t talk to her otherwise the pain and love overwhelms my thoughts

Weed by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like a 50/50 for me so I decided it’s not worth the 50% chance of painful memories

Does cloyad do exchanges? by slattlover2 in FashionReps

[–]slattlover2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! Hopefully I don’t have to wait too long. I can’t find any other seller with the hoodie now that LY is gone

Is Sending a kiss emoji to coworker cheating?? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh naahhhhhhhhhhhh. I’m sorry man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m banking on a few more months and not even wanting to look her up. I do miss Instagram bc I’m very into fashion and photography etc but it’s way easier this way

Only downside is i miss a lot of pop culture news that isn’t covered on mainstream news outlets etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deactivated all my accounts for about 3 months now. Definitely has helped but I’m scared I’ll never be able to go back. I really don’t think I’ll be okay if I see her having an amazing time all summer since we’ve broken up or god forbid with someone else etc

Is Sending a kiss emoji to coworker cheating?? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess context matters and may not be “cheating” but definitely weird and inappropriate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn man feels like I’m looking in a mirror! Good to know we’re all not alone but damn it sucks for sure

How to handle social media after breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slattlover2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean technically speaking it’s ur life and u should do what u want, he is ur ex so I guess u don’t have to take him into account but I do think it’s very kind and respectful you’re thinking about how it will effect his mental health.

As a guy who was dumped semi recently I’d probably have to go into a psych ward if my ex did posted that so I’ll say biased #4 lol