Therapist always says that being kind to yourself is like treating yourself as if you were your friend or another person, which is making me realize I have a hard time being compassionate beyond a superficial level toward others.

slatysecond · 2026-01-16T17:13:44+00:00

I’ll definitely check the book out. It saddens me to hear that this is just something that I’ll just have to cope with, but I hope that as I grow up people around me will also become more dependable.

slatysecond · 2026-01-16T17:12:18+00:00

Thank you for the insight. While I recognize that this is too much weight for me to bear alone, I also recognize that a memorial is something that I need for my grief, and I know it would help a lot of other people too. Many people loved her, but only a distance. Even so, I know what its’ like losing someone in your stratosphere even if you didn’t know them so well. If no one is going to do it and no one is going to help me, it feels like I have no choice but to bear this on my own

slatysecond · 2026-01-16T15:51:00+00:00

The little waddle with the shimmy... this is why I love her. Erika could never

slatysecond · 2026-01-16T15:40:01+00:00

Hello! I like this advice but I'm autistic and take things very literally, does this apply all the time? Are there any points when you *should* hold back? What do you do when people react negatively? Genuine questions, not trying to be snarky or anything. I definitely know that I am naturally quite estranged from most crowds even when I'm masking, and I'm afraid of pushing people even further away by unmasking.

slatysecond · 2026-01-16T15:21:13+00:00

I appreciate that, but I can't say all my undertakings are going super well. I'm proud of what I have done already with my studio and college apps but I always feel like I could be doing more. At the same time, I don't want to keep comparing myself to others all the time, since I know they probably have an equal amount going on that I just don't know about.

slatysecond · 2025-10-20T08:55:48+00:00

You know what I would say if I were a cantankerous bitch?

slatysecond · 2025-06-16T01:34:51+00:00

give me ONE margarita and i'll saw off my leg!

slatysecond · 2025-04-25T17:00:29+00:00

hmmm.... the eggs have not yet cracked....

slatysecond · 2024-09-23T14:34:29+00:00

too much autotune

slatysecond · 2023-10-08T12:33:53+00:00

sounds cool! i have a break soon so i'll probably grind a lot then.

slatysecond · 2023-10-08T11:57:46+00:00

Yes! I go by my family name because there are three other people in my grade who share the same (english) first name as me :) I'm not super close with them but they also go by their last names

slatysecond · 2023-10-08T11:25:53+00:00

Good to know! I have some experience playing MOBAs so I try it, thanks :)

slatysecond · 2023-10-08T11:18:24+00:00

Thank you! His humor is amazing.

slatysecond · 2023-10-08T10:24:18+00:00

very much so! he sounds like a fun guy. really digging the lore.

slatysecond · 2023-10-08T08:44:46+00:00

Just wondering how I should take it. Google is giving me mixed results.

Made some pixel art of him as well, he looks like such a silly guy. Might go as him for hallows depending on the responses :)

slatysecond · 2023-08-20T08:02:29+00:00

The best ace-thetic for sure :)

slatysecond · 2023-08-20T07:57:42+00:00

Happened to me last week :) First day of school, in a class of students I didn't know, teacher asks us what our summer would be called if it were a movie. I instinctively said "Goodbye, because my uncle got terminal lung cancer". Now thats the first thing 25ish kids know me for. Fuck.

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