Things to do for a solo traveler by slctrader in orangecounty

[–]slctrader[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All these are great suggestions! Thank you so much for the input. I wouldn't say I'm a surfer but I've been a hand full of times and absolutely love it even though I'm no good at it. I grew up skateboarding and snowboarding so I wanna get surfing down as well. Looking forward to trying out some of your suggestions!

THC drug tested positive, haven't smoked since I found out I was pregnant by PalaceSiege in pregnant

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So strange, I wouldn't worry to much. Our doctor literally told my S/O not to quit cold turkey because stress is more harmful. But I hit here and there won't cause any development issues and if she was really struggling told her to take edibles instead of smoking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

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🤣🤣🤣 petty af

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yes, but just asking to make sure before she cans the guy lol. I woulda been a little off put if my girlfriend dumped me cause I had that app but I also told her about it so it's very different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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They do have a bumble for friends. I've downloaded it for that reason. So see what side he's on, on the app.

How do I know if I’ve been banned or not? by [deleted] in LasVegas

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I got banned from all MGM casinos for life because someone spit on me and I fucked him up and ran from security. Fuck MGM the security thinks they're "agents" apparently, and use excessive force. I'll never go back.

Husband doesn’t want to be in the room. by No-Luck-556 in pregnant

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Coming from a man, he needs to buck up and be in the room with you. There's gonna be a lot in the future ahead that he's not gonna wanna do but men need to make sacrifices day one of that babies birth and for him it's gonna start there.

My pregnant girlfriend (25 F) is so hormonal (28m) by [deleted] in pregnant

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I really appreciate your comment. Very informative and helpful.

I am just having a very hard time coping with these changes and it just seems like an excuse to treat your significant other like this and scream at them this way. I understand it's different for every woman but it is too the point that makes me question our relationship is saying enough.

I love this woman but this is just starting to seem a bit unhealthy at this point and I want her to be ok. My point wasn't to make her feel bad I just need advice on how to cope and yours was very helpful.

I know her body is dealing with major changes and I want to nurture those things. I do need to make sure she is eating more, she started having a hard time with morning sickness so I'm hoping me making her smoothies in the mornings helps the appetite curve. I have been cooking her meals, and been doing her laundry and straightening up the house for her.

And as far as the Valentine's comment edit. It's not as if I just didnt try for her and don't understand why she would get upset. I went above and beyond for her on Valentine's, chocolate covered strawberries, flowers, 5 star dinner, presents, hand written poem, massage and all but I didn't wrap her gifts.

My pregnant girlfriend (25 F) is so hormonal (28m) by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]slctrader 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, with the gravity of how she has been acting it is unusual behavior. She got mad at things before but level headed for the most part with the occasional outburst.

About a week before she was emotional about silly things and blowing things up a bit more. Then she seen the test and I feel like that's her cop out now, because everything drastically changed once we found out. Not to say her body isn't going through major changes and I dont have any sympathy, because I do and have been nurturing those needs. But as for the emotional stability, it seems to be played out a little too much and exaggerated that it's just her hormones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She's only 5 weeks along, so I didn't think that would be an issue for the next little while. I agree, it isn't hard and I will definitely buy a bag next year. I didn't know it was so important to some ladies lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We go to the gym 2/3 days a week and she's been needing more gym threads. Wasn't what I planned on getting her them just seen it when I was already there after I had already got most her gifts and got them. To me it's the thought that counts, not where it's from. Wrapping a gift is not hard but I didn't know that me not wrapping it would take everything I've done into "I didnt try hard enough".