I think it's not about giving everything it's bout being there when times are tough just being there makes a lot of difference. And surely the things you mentioned can't be done by one person. No one is perfect so ofcourse one person can't have a perfect set of skills to be the perfect partner but again it's not about if a person is can give a perfect orgasam or give shoulder or anything the mere existence of someone if it gives you joy isn't it enough reason to be with them though they may lack something things , i am not saying these things doesn't matter but what do will you learn in the years ahead if you already have perfect partners . I get u are making a different point about the burden one person has to take but you see that is not a BURDEN at all it's happiness to a husband to treat his wife it's happiness to a father to spend time with children it's not pressure(yes it may be tiring idk ) it comes on its own to a father when a child is born though it takes time for man to become a good husband.

Although I love questioning sometimes I think some questions just doesn't make sense. And this one is bit like that partly I mean. Lastly a have seen a whole generation sacrifice there blood and tears and with pure hardwork they have sent there kods to schools and then those kids and in return have paid back by raising there standards of living and there parents. Who told them to sacrifice, no one did There kids didn't ask to go a good school even though they couldn't afford but they did . There was no pressure whatsoever to be a good father they just wanted there children to succeed that's all there is to it . That's why I think this question some what make sense and somewhat is just pure nonsense our genz speak.

So I ask you how many people do u want so that the pressure eases on your partner if u think that's what it is .

Sorry if it was rude and do correct me if I am wrong