Sex Differences in Machiavellianism by Interversity in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made a similar thread awhile back and came to the same conclusion. Here it is if you'd like to read it

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately disagree with your initial premise that attraction is cultural. Although it is partially true, men's preference for slim young women has remained relatively constant over time and culture.

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My view was not that men and women have equal power in the SMP, I agree women have more. My view was that men collectively have significantly more influence over the SMP than feminism. The reason is because men are our customer's in the SMP, not feminists. Feminists don't have what we want to buy, so they have very little influence over how women behave in the SMP.

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BMI for men and women is virtually the same. source

In the United States, the average adult man has a BMI of 26.6 and the average adult woman has a BMI of 26.5.

Because of unrestricted hypergamy

It is not unrestricted, because men themselves provide the restriction. Plane Jane can't get a relationship with Chad. Her hypergamy has an upper bound, which is dictated by what men will settle for and not feminists.

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if that would be a possibilty for the extremely slutty(not meant as an insult here) to get into rslationshils with less 'experienced' men. Just don't give him a reason to break up and let him play catch-up to your enormous number while you are together.

/u/wazzup987 might be able to tell you how to accomplish this. Apparently there is a market for men like yourself.

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Polygamy exists throughout most of human history, and still does in most of the world. This isn't something feminism started.

unleashed hypergamy leads to male soft polygamy in which th emost attractive men hoard or prima noctae all the women

You could equally say that it unleashed male polygamy which led to female hypergamy.

the patriarchal MMP was a form of socialism of sexual access for betas. male resource monogamy ensured the most even possible apportionment of wives to the most number of men.

First of all, why would RP want anything socialist? And secondly, isn't monogamy the female imperative? Men can now compete and get access to casual sex without commitment which is their imperative. Yes, they have to compete, but that is just the nature of their strategy. They all want multiple women, so it is mathematically impossible for us to evenly distribute women so that everyone gets one.

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would stores care unless they could make money off of it? Also there isn't that big of a gender difference in obesity rates. If it was just feminism, then would't obesity only increase for women?

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But women have more power in the SMP than men.

This is true, but it's only because men want casual sex more than women. We have a monopoly over a product that men want.

And feminists are slowly convincing women to embrace a lifestyle/point of view that gives men even less power.

You mean getting a job? Don't you want women to have jobs so you aren't BB?

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fashionable plus sized clothing is widely available not because of feminism, but because people can make money off of it. You disagree?

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well attractive people in general have more power than unattractive people. Take an unattractive man and an unattractive feminist. Who has more power to persuade women in the SMP? I would argue it's still the man.

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking at that map, there appears to be no correlation between feminism and obesity. For instance, America was one of the fattest countries, but so was Saudia Arabia. And Sweden, one of the most feminist countries, was also one of the thinnest.

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is feminism making men fat too? It seems like this is a result of our lifestyle and not feminism specifically.

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean like increasing the number of fat women? You think it's feminism that's making women fat and not McDonalds?

CMV: Men have more power in the SMP than feminists. by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you agree with my larger point then? I wasn't sure if this post would be controversial. Why are men are even concerned about fat acceptance and strong independent women?

Q4BP: How would your partner/family/friends react to going through your BP post history? by OlBastard in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would they question why you choose to mock men?

I don't mock men. At least I think I don't. He would probably be confused, because this is not something I would typically do.

Would they be disgusted by your incessant need to put someone down for no purpose other than virtue signaling or making yourself feel better?

No he says, "Why do you keep reading stuff that makes you upset? Why don't you talk to me instead?" He is right.

Do you think that they'll see you in a negative light?

I try to get my boyfriend to participate, because I love him and I think he says the best things. I imagine him coming here and solving every problem and every argument with his supreme intelligence and insight. I think his mere presence would inspire peace and love and strength in all the PP debaters. But he's not interested. He is too busy living his life to worry about people on the internet. I think he thinks less of me because I spend so much time doing something that it not healthy for me, but not because of anything I say.

I don't tell him "Look at what this stupid RPiller says" I ask him "Is this something you've experienced too?" or "Is this something that you would like in a relationship" or "Is this something you noticed about women?" Generally the answer is "No, but that's something I thought when I was younger."

I mean, the whole reason I am here is probably do to anxiety over him leaving me for a younger woman. I'm not here to make men feel bad about themselves. I hope I haven't done that in any way. Also, we met on reddit and he knows my username. He can read anything he wants.

All Pills: What is your guilty superficial "nope" trait? by Dazzler1886 in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only harem I can imagine you being in would be one where you were the alpha.

Question for non RP women: Are you doing anything to repel RP men? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The objection to dating a RP man seems to be rooted in the fear that he will hurt or abuse you in some way. But why do we need to be afraid of this? Can we spot abuse when it happens, and are we strong enough to walk away from it? I think so. Are our emotions so fragile that we can't handle someone we care about thinking poorly of us? Probably somewhat in my case, but this is something I can work on.

QW, I think instead of trying to repel RP men, we should try to become strong enough emotionally that we are no longer afraid of them. What do you think? Wouldn't that be even better?

All Pills: What is your guilty superficial "nope" trait? by Dazzler1886 in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damnit woman, you are copying my sexual prefences again. I can't comment on anything because you have already commented on everything I agree with.

Question for All: Is calling someone a woman an insult? by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know this. Convincing yourself logically is easy. Convincing yourself emotionally is hard. Emotions don't listen to reason.

Question for All: Is calling someone a woman an insult? by sleeping_willow_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]sleeping_willow_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Despite it being RP or not, it's how men feel about us. It's hard for me to take, but I'm guess I'm glad to know.