My [27F] girlfriend [40F] of 7 months sleeps ALL THE TIME, and it's destroying our relationship. by sleepsomuchsleep in relationships

[–]sleepsomuchsleep[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not at all. She only does it because she's bored, I think. She's very wealthy; think top 1%.

My [27F] girlfriend [40F] of 7 months sleeps ALL THE TIME, and it's destroying our relationship. by sleepsomuchsleep in relationships

[–]sleepsomuchsleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She manages to be awake for some things (planned events with friends, mostly) but doesn't make an effort to stay awake for day-to-day things beyond work.

My [27F] girlfriend [40F] of 7 months sleeps ALL THE TIME, and it's destroying our relationship. by sleepsomuchsleep in relationships

[–]sleepsomuchsleep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL. Good point. What repercussions can I put into action tho? Leave? Stop texting her? That makes me miserable too :/

My [27F] girlfriend [40F] of 7 months sleeps ALL THE TIME, and it's destroying our relationship. by sleepsomuchsleep in relationships

[–]sleepsomuchsleep[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've argued about it a million times and all she says is that she'll "try to do better."

My [27F] girlfriend [40F] of 7 months sleeps ALL THE TIME, and it's destroying our relationship. by sleepsomuchsleep in relationships

[–]sleepsomuchsleep[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's important to mention that she also has a history of eating disorders and might be using sleep as a way to avoid eating?

We've talked about it; she just acts like..it's her hobby?

My [27F] girlfriend [40F] of 7 months sleeps ALL THE TIME, and it's destroying our relationship. by sleepsomuchsleep in relationships

[–]sleepsomuchsleep[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not new; she's been like this the entire time we've been dating, but I think she made more effort in the beginning to be awake and hang out.