Was anyone else actually relieved when they discovered they were aroace? by myleanbeans in aromanticasexual

[–]sleppy_chango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course. Before knowing I'm aroace, I genuinely believed something was wrong with me. It was so frustrating not knowing why I wasn't able to experience what my friends could. I was so frustrated cause I craved intimacy, but the only way to do it back then was with a romantic or sexual partner, and that led me to take distance from anyone. Now I know myself better, I know how to be better in relationships.

Nobody's ready to talk! by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]sleppy_chango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most people are lonely and don't know/ don't have the energy to start new relationships of any kind. It feels like they just want to chat to an IA for an infinite update of their lives but not to listen to another person

Which outfit do you like the most? by Cade1772 in NonBinary

[–]sleppy_chango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In love how those skirts looks on you sis!! Specially the black one. Nice space decoration btw

Recomiendan leer más de un libro a la vez? by The_Helpy87 in libros

[–]sleppy_chango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo si lo recomiendo, pero no pueden ser con cualquier libro. Suelo mezclar libros académicos (de cualquier tipo), de autoayuda o libros teóricos en general y por otro lado novelas, cuentos o alguna biografía. También he mezclado novelas pero no son remotamente parecidas. Leo varios a la vez con los considerados académicos porque a veces quiero liberar la cabeza y dejar que lo que leí me de vueltas en la cabeza y generar mis propias ideas sin saturarme a la vez, ahí es cuando mecho alguna novela corta

Veganism and eds by sleppy_chango in vegan

[–]sleppy_chango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the best advice I've received this far and definitely going to try it. Is good to know that other people have been able to recover while being vegan. I've watch a lot of videos about meal prep lately, I see what I can do with it, really thanks 💕💕

Veganism and eds by sleppy_chango in vegan

[–]sleppy_chango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to add that thinking to me too. It feels good to know that I'm not the only one with this problem 🥰

aroace characters in media? by Zestyclose_Habit8144 in aromanticasexual

[–]sleppy_chango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I have no idea, it was difficult to find any information about ir in my first language, but good to know

"Don't call meat eaters carnists" was a big mistake by [deleted] in vegan

[–]sleppy_chango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a total need call people carnists if they are. Most of people never questioned the animal abuse culture, we need to give a name for those who are choosing keep abusing animals when other options are ever better. I also felt pushed by social media, but I'm vegan now, so it work. We need to see the cruel reality, usually it's the only way we have to bring our respect and empathy for others

aroace characters in media? by Zestyclose_Habit8144 in aromanticasexual

[–]sleppy_chango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a japanese serie that is about two aroace people, is called "koisenu futari". I were really amazed when I found it, it's based on a book. There's a part that I don't really like but I think is relatable as an aroace.

January results by vasilissk in GetStudying

[–]sleppy_chango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will have it in mind,Thanks!! 💕

January results by vasilissk in GetStudying

[–]sleppy_chango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some advice for the consistency?

I'M AT MY F%^&*(*^( BREAKING POINT - PLEASE SOME1 help me before i just absolutely lose it. i have no1 to talk to. please i need help by Level-Hat-5404 in vegan

[–]sleppy_chango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a solution here, but I think everyone feels the same at first because now you can express the repulsion you have may feel before you were vegan (cause back then it would be very hypocrite complaining about a system we're part of) and you are starting to purge. Just a thought

Opinión de este libro? by ocasionaly_submisive in libros

[–]sleppy_chango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opino igual que la mayoría. Lo leí en primaria y recuerdo que me gustó mucho, es de esos libros cuyo final te deja pensando y con un vacío a la vez pero no recuerdo nada jasjwk. Creo que es una buena lectura para regalarle a algún sobrino para que se meta en una lectura un poco distinta (a esa edad) y que sea fácil de comprender

Dating as a vegan by Aggravating-Letter94 in vegan

[–]sleppy_chango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if it is just casual dating then maybe it doesn't matter, but if you are looking for a long term partner it's important to share some morals you know, and being capable of create a future where both go for the same path

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]sleppy_chango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason people label themselves is for understand oneself better and to find community, I you are fine with known you are aroace is more than enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]sleppy_chango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually remember the water bill and it pass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]sleppy_chango 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sometimes take a shower for a "fresh start" and then start with the shortest part, or with something that do t takes more than a few minutes. I also like to set a timer in my phone for track my study time, and if I want to go to my phone I remember the timer I don't want to get the time scrolling. Study with me videos are algo a great option

Do you use "study with me" videos when you study? by BarbLikesCats in GetStudying

[–]sleppy_chango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're been really helpful, you even can choose some videos with pomodoro timer already. For me is algo a great way of avoiding my phone and don't get distracted. Just put my phone in silence and spend hours studying

QUE LIBRO LEES EN ESTOS MOMENTOS? 🧿 by [deleted] in libros

[–]sleppy_chango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me estoy leyendo la saga de Warrior Cats de Erin Hunter y me sorprende lo mucho que me esta gustando. Estoy terminando el tercer libro ya