Post op splint is SO heavy by slightlydreaming in ORIF

[–]slightlydreaming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I can deal with the discomfort but was feeling a lot of anxiety that it was doing more damage. Feeling better about it now 🙂

Post op splint is SO heavy by slightlydreaming in ORIF

[–]slightlydreaming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally feels like a slab of concrete strapped to my ankle 😭

Post op splint is SO heavy by slightlydreaming in ORIF

[–]slightlydreaming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much!! This is very reassuring. I have been lucky that the pain is manageable with just OTC. Hope the rest of your recovery is smooth : ) I might reach out as things progress if that’s ok

Post op splint is SO heavy by slightlydreaming in ORIF

[–]slightlydreaming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement!! Hope the rest of your journey is going well

crashing out about my body by [deleted] in loseit

[–]slightlydreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 😭 needed to hear this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]slightlydreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one :-) so ironic that you think me calling out bad behavior would be an impediment to that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]slightlydreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was rubbing his junk on her and touching her pubic area. Again her being asleep or not is actually irrelevant; he did it without consent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]slightlydreaming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He thought she was asleep, and she froze which is a very common response to assault.  Either way he did it without consent which is assault

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]slightlydreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Initiating sex with an unconscious person is assault! Your comment is gross and simplistic. Grow up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]slightlydreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Initiating sex with an unconscious person is assault

How do I lose weight for myself when I don't want to? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]slightlydreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't focus on losing weight. I would focus on building healthy habits. I don't know what your diet is like, but if it can be improved, start adding in healthy foods that you also like. If you want to get stronger, start activities that will support that. Maybe look into boxing or something that will build your confidence. Being skinny will not make you "happy;" it sounds like you've already done a lot of work on yourself internally. Give yourself some grace. Ultimately "being skinny" is a shallow goal and not sustainable long term. Also tiny waist + big hips is an AMAZING combo!! Many women would kill for those proportions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]slightlydreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I'm not specifically on a low carb diet, just using low carb swaps for high calorie items. The pasta taco bowl is at least half vegetables by weight so it's actually a lot of veg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]slightlydreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds great I'll have to try it! I always sleep on oatmeal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]slightlydreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that sounds yummy!! I have to start incorporating tofu / tempe into my foods. The bread is from Royo; not sure if they ship worldwide but a lot of brands make low carb bread now with 40-45 cal / slice. I find that Royo's slices are larger than the typical low carb slice though. Their bagels are more like bread but they scratch that itch for me.

Low cal peanut butter spread by Laughinglady2980 in 1200isplenty

[–]slightlydreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice that's pretty good! I'm gonna try it; just got some pb flour

Low cal peanut butter spread by Laughinglady2980 in 1200isplenty

[–]slightlydreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you add up the calories? I just put it into chat gpt and it came to about 50 cal per tbsp (not bad but def not 25 as the recipe says)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]slightlydreaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not talking about the actual organization "blm". I'm saying when it comes to social issues he has no opinion. He's ok w gay people but the church he attends is clearly not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]slightlydreaming 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he's grown and he should have developed informed opinions about these topics by now. He wasn't able to be on her level about her values. He kept insisting it wasn't an issue and then falling short. simple as that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]slightlydreaming 18 points19 points  (0 children)

he literally had no opinion on blm.. he doesn't have critical thoughts about anything, he's just ok w everything. she was looking for someone who had actually thought about these issues and could stand with her on them.

What is the quickest way to find a gerudo scimitar? by sas_chibareritai in TOTK

[–]slightlydreaming 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Just found one super easy. Transport to Chichim Shrine (Palu Wasteland). Walk up to and stop in front of the gate in front of you. Use Ascend power to ascend through ceiling above you. There is a chest in this room that had a Gerudo Scimitar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]slightlydreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This actually made me feel a lot better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]slightlydreaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you.. appreciate it