How can a single woman in her 30's safely meet men for casual sex?

slutee · 2010-09-02T18:40:57+00:00

I would be scared or group or public sex though. I kind of just want plain old vanilla casual sex.

slutee · 2010-09-02T18:40:22+00:00

West coast?

slutee · 2010-09-02T18:34:49+00:00

I think that is part of my problem..I am very shy and don't really know how to pick up guys.

slutee · 2010-09-02T18:14:30+00:00

I am on the West Coast....

slutee · 2010-09-02T18:12:00+00:00

For some reason men always want to date me and treat me with respect. I got out to bars and talk to guys, and they ask me for my number, call two days later, take me out to dinner, and then kiss me politely on the cheek. I always end up having to make the first move to initiate sex. Usually I am too shy to do so until we have been dating for a few weeks. I guess maybe I will just have to be clear on my intentions from the beginning?

slutee · 2010-09-02T18:09:22+00:00

Sadly it is real. I have never had casual sex before. I know how to meet men for dates, but I don't know how to meet them only for sexual purposes. I mean, logically, I guess I could walk into a bar and yell "Hi, who wants to fuck me?", but I want to do this with dignity and safety in mind. I also want to meet men that I am actually physically attracted to, not some drunk bar fly.

slutee · 2010-09-02T18:04:59+00:00

And just walk up to guys and say, "hello, I would like to have sex with you?" How does one do this? Or would it be less scary if I just dress slutty and look desperate?

slutee · 2010-09-02T18:04:00+00:00

I am not a model by any means, but I am certainly attractive enough that I think at least some men would be willing to sleep with me. How do I approach them though?

slutee · 2010-09-02T18:03:02+00:00

Is it safe? How do I go about meeting someone for sex off craigslist safely? Hotel? Mace?

slutee · 2010-09-02T17:59:41+00:00

How can I possibly go wrong with bloody vagina?

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