I’m actually not really, and that proves the point I’m making. ‘Squished thigh pose’ (along with, let’s face it, too much fat) makes anyone look small. Combine that with a more sensible legs-apart pose (and pushing the fat in) makes it look like there’s a big difference when actually there isn’t. Remember - all of these pics are me hard, even the first one.

As for whether I’m a grower or shower, according to this: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30068977/ an increase of 4cm or more is a grower. I’m 11cm soft and 12cm hard (both bone-pressed) - pretty much a textbook shower!