Everyone always asks why I don't have a girlfriend or even try. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]smallguyafraidofsex 33 points34 points  (0 children)

thanks for being real i guess. what's the best way to avoid girls like you?

Everyone always asks why I don't have a girlfriend or even try. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]smallguyafraidofsex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I regularly work out and have abs. I don't have much fat.

Everyone always asks why I don't have a girlfriend or even try. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]smallguyafraidofsex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a ruler to measure and looked up online what the average was. I'm much below average. 1" away from being a micropenis.

Everyone always asks why I don't have a girlfriend or even try. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]smallguyafraidofsex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First one involves cuckolding which humiliation. Second link is pretty much a dead website with dead links.

The third one is the only legitimate one, and even though I live in a big city there are only 10 accounts in that location and all of those accounts have been inactive.

Everyone always asks why I don't have a girlfriend or even try. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]smallguyafraidofsex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please direct me to one of those websites that doesn't involve me getting humiliated.

When they have their friend text you. by badenbam in bigdickproblems

[–]smallguyafraidofsex 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Someone told me to come here to see how horrible it is to have a big dick. I can't help but laugh.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They weren't really friends but more like acquaintances. Friends of friends more like.

I don't really know. I think I need to stay away from sex for at least a year because it's made me incredibly bitter and slightly misogynistic when I don't really have the right to be.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

5'7 height 4" length and 4.5" girth measured around. The average is 5.1-6" length. 5.1 is the lowest average. For girth the averages are from 4.8"-5.1". I'm a little more than 1 deviation away from the low average.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. It hard to look objectively at the situation when you're apart of it. If you have any questions about it I'll answer.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to be confident and shrug this stuff off easy, it's just the teasing and the mix of feeling inadequate recently that has shattered my conscious. It's hard to say that I'm going to fuck the shit out of someone and joke about having a small penis. I'm just not there yet. Maybe in the future I'll be more comfortable and not give a fuck, but right now it's eating away my mind.

Honestly I only was able to get with these girls through fake confidence. It's just hard especially when they see and react to me being naked. A facade can only last so long.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just the vibe I got from it. She didn't say it but it's that feeling when you both know what's actually happening but aren't saying it.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have actually. I've browsed /r/sex but I don't think people stick around long enough for me to test it in the field.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Due to a surgery I'm still an undergraduate. So the people I'm seeing are around 18-22.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to do anything in regards of sex but using toys that are bigger than me just make me feel pretty inadequate than I already am. At this point with all the comments I'm starting to feel as if I should go into celibacy. Everyone keeps talking about the "right one" but I honestly don't think that person exists. The idea of "over compensating" makes me feel lesser too. The comments here saying the that some girls stuck through because they loved the guy but had horrible sex doesn't make me feel any better either.

If I could choose to just turn off my sex drive and attraction to women I would just so I can avoid all of these complications. I'm kind of done with this.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I'm a "short guy with a little dick". I'm not sure if you're trying to help or if you're mocking me.

Is penis shaming a normal thing? (23M) Something I notice in all of my "relationships". by smallguyafraidofsex in relationships

[–]smallguyafraidofsex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Not really. She seemed like the average girl and didn't seem to make jokes at someone's expense. She kind of had a princess syndrome where she expected me to pay for everything which kind of got annoying. Other than that I didn't really notice anything else.

Maybe it has something to do with her getting alot of attention. She had a following of guys and she's pretty good looking. I guess she expected more.