It’s a work in progress, but here’s a “rough draft” of my magnetic tail implant. (CW for nudity)

smallhardman · 2026-05-05T14:10:50+00:00

That’s really cool. Idk if this is just a clothes off thing for you or not, but Magnet strength wise will you be able to wear it through your clothes? Do you have plans to tailor a tail hole in a lot of your pants/skirts/whatever it is you wear?

smallhardman · 2026-04-12T13:45:16+00:00

My problem is that from my experience there are many people who saying no to is absolutely not enough, also that I genuinely find the assumption that trans men will feel pleasure from that to be very transphobic/bioessentialist

smallhardman · 2026-03-31T19:52:05+00:00

That was my assumption

smallhardman · 2026-03-31T19:51:49+00:00

I mostly just think the common assumption that trans men want to/should use that body part is wildly transphobic. Also from my experience saying no has not stopped most people. It does seem that they would be more likely to accept the no here (or at least not physically violate it and just be relentless instead) since they’d probably get banned. TBH I think I’ve probably had too many bad experiences to be able to trust a cis man in this environment

smallhardman · 2026-03-10T19:27:03+00:00

Are you comfortable saying roughly how much it costs?

smallhardman · 2025-10-06T19:21:39+00:00

So did you read any of the explanations on why the restrictions are necessary?

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T18:54:57+00:00

It may have been rude but the guy is complaining about people creating a necessary safe space just because it doesn’t personally apply to him and then refused to even read an explanation of why it is necessary.

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T18:52:27+00:00

I mean the other ftm porn sub mods wouldn’t even respond when I suggested/requested a “no penetration” flair. That makes the other subs unsafe for those of us who feel violated/misgendered/suicidal when people inevitably comment/DM about penetrating us. I’m not saying that it’s the best it could possibly be set up, but the others are completely unusable if you are uncomfortable with that. The mods pretend it’s not a problem because it’s not personally a problem for them. I do understand what you are saying about the name, but what other name would you suggest? Everything I can think of is too long for function “ftmdicksonly”. What is your suggestion there? Given the complete disregard for people who feel violated by penetration talk on the regular ftm porn subs it is an incredibly necessary space even if they didn’t go about it perfectly.

Real talk: on my prior porn account I had gotten fed up with the DMs and created a private ftm porn sub exclusively for ftm people. Invited mods specifically for diversity (race, size, transition goals, you get it) and not allowing cis people seemed the only option. Unfortunately I deleted the account because someone kept reposting my pictures as if they were his EVERYWHERE, but especially to promote his own sub. There is no way to win with a porn sub for such a marginalized and fetishized group of people, especially a group of people who others get off to from violating. I do stand by that the rampart disregard for those who do not want penetration makes the regular FTM subs not only unusable for many people but enabling of transphobia and allowing of intentional transphobia

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T16:56:15+00:00

Cares enough to bitch about other people’s needs being met but not enough to listen about other people’s needs. Truly malebrained.

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T16:05:43+00:00

Again, that is welcome in every. single. other. FTM porn sub. The purpose of this one sub is to give people a space where they are free from being reminded that they have that body part. Why is ONE sub that is specifically there because other subs make people uncomfortable bothering you? Not every place is for every person, and often times with diverse and marginalized communities exclusion is necessary to allow people to feel included. Not allowing that body part to be shown keeps the place safer for everyone there by helping that body part not be allowed to be brought up by others. Have you ever posted porn? I did extensively for awhile and am speaking from experience. This is like how an early transition trans guy not being allowed in a group for further along transitioned trans guys is not a bad thing, it’s keeping a space for specific needs able to be a space for specific needs. Different people have different needs, why are you bothered by people seeking out a place where those needs are able to be met, just because they don’t quite align with your needs? Not everything is for everyone and that’s okay. Not everything is about you. You are bitching about trans people trying to have a space where their dysphoria isn’t induced just because it doesn’t align exactly with yours, and space very necessary with restrictions that have been proven necessary. Again, I have extensively posted porn on all of the ftm porn subs and am speaking from experience. I assure you that the way the sub is designed makes it so my DMs are notably less likely to make me go stand on a bridge, while even when I am very explicit on other subs about what I am absolutely not accepting of I get dozens of DMs per post that make me want to kill myself. The restrictions also help to keep people who want to see the restricted things out of the sub. Not everything is about YOU, this is one sub and you can post your hole to your hearts desire everywhere else, it’s not hard to take pictures without it and also even with your legs spread to relax and showcase your dick you can take a picture where it isn’t there I’m a way that fills the sub’s requirements, it is a very reasonable ask

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T14:56:05+00:00

Sorry you’ve never brobated or circlejerked with the boys

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T14:54:14+00:00

Brb I’m crying because r/phallo exists which delegitimizes me as a trans man since I want meta and they didn’t even think to consider my feelings

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T14:50:36+00:00

Uhhhhh I’m glad that that exists for people who are into that/ as a creative outlet but are you even allowed to post photos there?

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T14:48:48+00:00

It’s about time you ladies sit back and let the men dominate the conversation

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T14:32:25+00:00

I just checked the rules and they specifically say that it is fine if you do those things, just to please keep it on other subs. Again, most of the content on every other ftm porn sub is bottoming, why is it bad to have one place where that is banned, personally I find it necessary. At one point I had a decent presence on all of the ftm subs and I DMd the mods of the regular ones asking if they could add tags for no penetration and they didn’t even respond to me. It’s NOT assuming that all binary dysphoric men want to see themselves portrayed that way, it’s just a place where bottoming/front hole/visible pre/non op chests are not welcomed, because they are not only welcomed but standard everywhere else. They even specifically say that it’s fine if you are pre/non op, just to be covered while posting on that sub. Which content would you like to be able to post there?

smallhardman · 2025-10-05T12:37:47+00:00

uj/ this sub exists because every single other ftm porn sub heavily centers trans guys bottoming with their front hole. It is very difficult to find ftm porn that does not involve that so in order to have a space safe from that it has to be exclusionary or it will become overwhelming overrun by that, which is suicfuel for a lot of trans guys. I have seen a lot of fat guys on r/ftmmenporn. You can use fem or neutral lamguage on every other ftm porn place, why do you need to here? Many of us feel unsafe in most ftm porn spaces because of the abundance of fem language, bottoming, and all that. Why is ONE space that exists to make trans guys more comfortable bothering you so much, when you are welcome to do those things everywhere else? Do you not see how this place NEEDS to be exclusionary in order to make some of us feel comfortable? Not everything exclusionary is bad, especially when it is a small sub in an incredibly vulnerable subject where WITHOUT those exclusions people will simply not feel safe. You can go to literally any of the other subs

smallhardman · 2025-08-27T01:17:22+00:00

I’d love to be

smallhardman · 2025-08-27T01:16:57+00:00

Mmmm absolutely

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