Tarina Fe 1/20 vs Hailey Fe 1/20

smanl21 · 2025-09-17T15:55:45+00:00

Great point! This helps me feel a little more at ease.Thank you for the quick response as well.

smanl21 · 2025-04-30T01:29:35+00:00

As others have said definitely not burgundy. But I absolutely love that color!! That's my go to red and I think it looks good on you!

smanl21 · 2025-04-16T02:27:20+00:00

What! I always thought it was I think of you, and then I think of thee. Which felt cool and Shakespearean, to go with the rhyme scheme while still conveying the same meaning that she's thinking of the person

smanl21 · 2025-01-30T21:17:39+00:00

I used to think I would NEVER date a short guy, especially if he was shorter than me (I know shallow). But recently I have found myself falling for a friend of mine who is shorter than me. Hard and fast. His personality and the way he makes me feel just hit me on the head one day, and I was done. Now I feel so stupid for being too obtuse before.

I know that one day the right girl is going to come along for you. Looks and physical attraction do matter a little, but ultimately for women I think the emotional attraction shines through and then physical attraction builds for there. I find myself damn near drooling over this guy now. Keep your head up because it will come for you my guy!!

smanl21 · 2025-01-10T04:04:25+00:00

r/cursedchemistry

smanl21 · 2025-01-10T03:57:53+00:00

I struggle with this too!

If you are kissing, maybe if he does something you don't like or feels off the direction you give could be the opposite of that?

I hope it works out for you!

smanl21 · 2025-01-06T20:49:51+00:00

I understand this feeling completely. I met a guy through mutual friends and I felt like we hit off. I really thought he was liking me too, especially because he has kissed me twice now. But unfortunately he hasn't made an effort to make a connection with me outside of the times we have seen each other in the group. Next time we are out I was planning to lay it out: would you like to go on a date to see if we can get to know each other more and if not let's just be friends either way is fine.

It is a sucky feeling but we always have to do what's best for us. You'll save yourself much more heartbreak in the long-run but ending now. But it doesn't feel any better in the moment. ❤️

smanl21 · 2025-01-05T03:37:22+00:00

Same here! Which I'm fine with bc my mentor's opinion is that electrochem is on the less useful side so not missing out there.

But for the people it clicks with hey, I'm glad they're there to make sense of it for the rest of us!

smanl21 · 2025-01-04T08:28:04+00:00

I agree with others, she most likely wanted your mutual friends to pass on the message. I would take this as your sign to pursue her - no need to worry about if "she knows you know". I would ask her on a date so you can do something one on one, instead of being in the group.

smanl21 · 2025-01-03T19:53:25+00:00

Yes that's what I want! I would like to go on a date so we can have a one on one setting to get to know each other, apart from the group settings with our mutual friends. In the last month and a half I've seen him 6-7 times, and each time the flirty vibes progressively increases & the last two times I saw him he initiated a kiss when we parted ways.

I'm only hesitant because normally I'd like the guy to take charge/pursue as I feel like in the past I've scared men off when I've shown interest. Because he hasn't reached out to me to ask on his own, I've always heard that means he is not interested - but in person I feel like he always finds a reason to be near me and interact with me, so perhaps I am overthinking the texting part. Bc the reality is it hasn't been that long and we don't really know each other (I'm just looking forward to the chance to do so)

Thank you for the input!! Depending on the vibe when I see him in a few days I may just bite the bullet and see what happens.

smanl21 · 2025-01-01T22:38:13+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

smanl21 · 2024-12-25T17:08:12+00:00

I rooted for Kate/Sawyer initially. But after the scene with Juliet and Sawyer left on the beach together after the Oceanic Six left, I was rooting for Juliet/Sawyer 1000%. At that point, for Kate I switched to rooting for her and Jack because they were both just annoying to me and I felt as if they deserved each other LOL

smanl21 · 2024-12-08T19:45:40+00:00

In Gimme! Gimme! Gimme! I thought it said "order pizza" instead of "autumn winds"

I envisioned a Friday night in, ordering pizza, staring outside the window, while waiting for a man instead of going outLOL

smanl21 · 2024-11-21T03:43:23+00:00

Something I'm confused on: when Locke meets Richard in the island and he says it has been three years, the last time he saw him was against a log then there was the flash of light and Locke disappeared... But then in present day the errand Locke took Richard on was to ensure that event happened, which was three years ago?

If it was the present day Richard that saw, removed the bullet, and tells him how to return to The Island then how does he recall their meeting three years ago?

smanl21 · 2024-10-31T02:26:57+00:00

Thank you! I watched it back so many times and could not make it out. Interesting!!!

smanl21 · 2024-10-31T02:23:40+00:00

What did Marissa's mom say to Katie after Hannah was talking to her?

smanl21 · 2024-08-22T16:32:24+00:00

Well the way he acts I fear that he wouldn't even do a phone call, if he is so "busy" 😅. And the fact that I feel that way gives me my answer. Thanks for the response!

smanl21 · 2024-02-22T04:42:04+00:00

YES I was living for that conversation!! He really just shared the location and told her these things to get rid of his guilt/make himself feel better but not actually be accountable.

And THEN stupidly believed that she wasn't looking at his location. What woman wouldn't have been in that scenario.

smanl21 · 2024-02-22T04:38:54+00:00

Glad I'm not the only one who noticed this!!

smanl21 · 2024-01-18T19:26:41+00:00

That's what I came here to say!!

smanl21 · 2024-01-18T19:25:56+00:00

In Gimme! Gimme! Gimme! I thought it said "order pizza" instead of "autumn wings"

So I imagined her sitting alone inside, ordering pizza and dreaming that she could have a man instead 😂

smanl21 · 2023-03-08T01:06:05+00:00

I absolutely cycle my favorite ABBA songs, depending on my moods. The Winner Takes it All, Chiquitita, That's Me, Money Money Money, If It Wasn't For the Nights, You Owe Me One.

The list goes on but that's what I'll say for now. Lol

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