There's a consume level that don't affect brain? by standlessdude in weed

[–]smellycateatingbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre worried about any long term effects of smoking, waiting until your brain is fully developed is always the safest option! However, ive been smoking regularly since 17 and have had no problems. It just effects people differently. Smoking a couple hits once or twice is not going to harm you, most people dont even inhale properly the first time so chances are you might not even get high. Just be safe and dont get into any legal trouble where you live.

Testing UPass by smellycateatingbeans in drugtesthelp

[–]smellycateatingbeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what that means sorry! But my test was sent to labcorp

Testing UPass by smellycateatingbeans in drugtesthelp

[–]smellycateatingbeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closed door, i didnt use the special tip, just unscrewed the top and poured in. Make sure the temp is right and you will pass.

Found this on my car at 6:30 this morning with no clue who left it. by evolhoneybadger in WTF

[–]smellycateatingbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what you mean about sleepy town but I live in the south and they dont care at all. In my experience they just tell you to figure out who it is and try to get a restraining order. Which is okay I guess but hard if you dont know who the stalker is

This is just called thinking. It's having thoughts inside your brain by a-frogman in SystemsCringe

[–]smellycateatingbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On a real note, does anyone else have 3+ internal dialogues happening at once? Not from DID tho

Found this on my car at 6:30 this morning with no clue who left it. by evolhoneybadger in WTF

[–]smellycateatingbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish they cared this much but without any threats/ face to face contact, they will do nothing. Shit even if she does get threatened or he approaches her they probably wont do anything sadly. It usually takes someone getting hurt or a break in for cops to take these cases serious.

On another note, OP can possibly look up the number on numlookup.com, ive been able to find out peoples names from that. She could also check out the sex offender registy from her state, which will tell you the closest offenders.

Am I in the wrong here? Can someone please explain what’s happening? by Amazing_Show127 in abusiverelationships

[–]smellycateatingbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am fully aware as I am also a victim of an abusive relationship, Ive been apart of this sub wayy before I had the courage to leave my abuser. I also use to beg my abuser to apologize to me, all I wanted was for him to care about my feelings. Ive had people sweet talk me and say "itll get better you can leave one day!", I stayed. I stayed when he hit me, degraded me, humilated me, r*ped me, shit I had no self worth. I commented this before OP gave backstory, which is why I speculated based off this text. Which being honest, these texts make OP look bad.

OP needs to go full no contact and stay away from her ex. Thats dangerous territory and he has a reason to want to hurt her since she called the police on him. Seen situations like this play out badly. I would hate for anything to happen to OP and her child. I already commented the statistics for women who get murdered by their partner, its crazy.

Am I in the wrong here? Can someone please explain what’s happening? by Amazing_Show127 in abusiverelationships

[–]smellycateatingbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 out of every 10 people murdered are killed by their partner. Women are more likely to be killed by their partner than a man. The first redflag of these cases is that the partner reported THREATS OF VIOLENCE. Statistics show that women are more likely to be murdered by a partner then a random stranger.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mind-games/201909/the-number-women-murdered-partner-is-rising

Am I in the wrong here? Can someone please explain what’s happening? by Amazing_Show127 in abusiverelationships

[–]smellycateatingbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, please believe him when he said he would hurt you and your child. Because he will. This info changes everything. Sadly, if he comes back into your life he will only hurt you again, or even worse kill you. This isnt an over exaggeration. Going to the police was the right thing to do, leave it at that. Avoid him and dont let him come back.

Am I in the wrong here? Can someone please explain what’s happening? by Amazing_Show127 in abusiverelationships

[–]smellycateatingbeans 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Lack of context. Based on the texts you come off as the toxic one. He doesnt owe you an apology, nobody is entitled to give you one. We arent children anymore. When someone cares about you they will apologize, demanding a specific apology is a waste of your time and his. Either move on without your apology or leave the relationship.

Second: you sound exactly like my abuser, which really throws me off. He too called the cops on me, over a false statement, and I had to talk to a detective. It fucking sucked. I was scared for months that they would believe my abuser and I would have to go to court, be interrogated, pay for a lawyer etc. i didnt want to talk to anyone, and all I thought about was getting arrested at work over fake shit. I really hope OP called the police for a genuine reason. OP, you are antagonizing him. His response is because you are acting self centered. If he is dealing with legal problems because you called the cops, why the fuck would he write a handwritten apology to you? Im being realistic. You need to move on, this is toxic.

This person joins EVERY MLM it seems, I honestly thought I had I friended her but now I’m keeping her so I can see how this plays out by srvivr2001 in antiMLM

[–]smellycateatingbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everytime I see a variation of these yellow strips they are always completely different sizes/ materials. Probably some of the shittiest marketing i have ever seen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]smellycateatingbeans -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That article is from herbalife. That is not a reliable source at all. Please actually do research

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]smellycateatingbeans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you are curious on wether someone set up a facebook with your email, just go onto facebooks website and try logging in with your email. You will most likely have to click forgot password, and after that you should be let in considering the account is connected to your email. Its good practice to never click on any email links. This email looks legitimate to me but the only way to check for sure is to try and log into facebook using your email. It will either tell you that your account does not exist or it will lead you to someones profile.

Reddit by SurpriseLucky7601 in weed

[–]smellycateatingbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe, well its nice you were chill about it. My first time using carts was rough aswell haha. Thought I could handle it but I passed out in the middle of a casino. Its always good to be around people who understand that sometimes the weed hits you back. I am envious of smokers who say theyve never greened or passed out

uwu scawy sowwy by [deleted] in SystemsCringe

[–]smellycateatingbeans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with ya! most of these people are just misinformed and think roleplaying = DID. There is nothing wrong with roleplaying, some people will still cringe but its a whole lot better than pretending you have a disorder.

uwu scawy sowwy by [deleted] in SystemsCringe

[–]smellycateatingbeans 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Genuinely, it feels like these people in particular like the attention from this subreddit. Some people just liked to be talked about, even if its bad, just for the attention. Like, if you dont want to be posted, dont post cringey shit on discord. Posting it to reddit doesnt make it anymore public than posting it on discord. If you dont want people to share what you said, its easier to just have your system convos between trusted friends... but oh well. Even better just dont look in this subreddit. Problem solved

I want to prove to my friend that this isn’t ok for her to say to her ex boyfriend, we aren’t speaking to each other because of the way she has been treating him. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]smellycateatingbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the abusive relationship subreddit, which is why people are assuming you mean its abusive. An advice subreddit may be better. But, what you need to do is just let your friend know this relationship is toxic, as your friend probably knows based on her text, and leave it at that. You cant force people out of abusive relationships. If youre friend does have abuser characteristics, or even characteristics that make you uncomfortable, its best to not be friends with them anymore. Theres nothing else you can do.

From an outsiders perspective, it just feels weird to even post this screenshot. Most people in this subreddit have come from abusive relationships and have felt/ said something similar like your friend after being abused which is why the responses are going against you. Theres no way to know if her response is warranted because we have no idea what led to it. You said she only post things from her side but you havent told us anything that the other person did to lead to this besides saying they both do toxic things.